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This looks very nice! Though looking at it makes me hungry :(

It's all about the cuddles :D

Course it is :D 18 is not even a "late" stage of being a virgin, either. Not IMO, anyway. I know a lot of people who've said they regret losing theirs earlier than that sort of age, for some reason society enforces this shallow opinion through mass media and the like that it's "wrong" to save...

1. Surprising me! If I'm having a crap day for some reason and suddenly a girl tells me she's cooked something nice, or bought me a tiny present or something on the spur of the moment...that always feels great :) 2. Making me feel included. If a girl's chatting with her friends but she...

To offer a (possibly irrelevant) personal opinion, I'm rapidly discovering that proper relationships tend to just happen when you're really comfortable as a friend with someone rather than "looking" for a relationship. I guess it depends on your natural personality. Some people feel most...

Ugh, I guess in this case I did indeed ask her out, then. And she did hang out with me after I asked. Unfortunately after that I screwed up in colossal fashion by trying not to show her "too much" interest (I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable since we weren't officially dating). Instead it...

It was another girl, yep. But I don't think she was keen on me. I don't know, presumably the same way I feel when I see girls I like talk to other guys? (IE. I feel that's fine if I'm not going out with someone). I honestly don't know how girls see me, so I have no clue how thery feel. It was...

Well, I tried. I don't really understand what I did "wrong", but I guess she's not interested in me now. I asked in semi-subtle fashion (since we hadn't met up since that previous event we went to together) how she was doing and if she wanted to meet up...absolutely no response. I'm starting...

Haha, I'm actually the same myself. I either sort of force myself to talk and so talk lots, or I don't talk at all and go really shy :P I sort of wonder if she's kind of miffed that I've been chatting with other girls or something, because she seems to purposely ignore me a little (talking to...

Nah, not really. I'll just be friendly with her if she gets flirtier. It's not like I'm going to go any further than being friends with her when I know she has a guy in her life already, so... Well, the funny thing is, she told me she's quite shy and everything...but she really doesn't seem...

While I didn't state it, I'd rather not play that sort of role. I wouldn't want guys sneakily flirting with a GF of mine. While she's in a relationship I don't think I have any right to take the initiative flirting with her. Yeah, I was kind of wondering this myself. I was just surprised at...

Yeah, I'd say 7 is too young for "dating" too o_0 Anyway, yeah, kinda wish I'd "dated" when younger. In fact, I just wish I'd had a kiss when I was a young teen or something, because now after so long it just feels like an impenetrable wall I'm never going to get over. Some other guys my age...

I do partner dancing as a hobby, and so I come into contact with quite a few ladies. It's great fun, and I recommend it! Anyway, this has caused some strange flirting. I mean, girls acting in a way that really doesn't make sense to me. I'll start with the one story and if anyone's interested...

I know it sounds old-fashioned, but I like girls that are pretty discerning about their partners. I've always waited for the right lady to come along, so I find it really attractive when I meet a girl who is waiting for a really solid guy. Not that I mean a girl has to have zero experience...

With people like this I find it's a 50/50 thing. They're either extremely intelligent yet (as others have said) emotionally undeveloped, and so have some basis for their arrogance (yet are still loathsome individuals). Or they're nowhere near as amazingly fantastic at everything as they...

I have a few friends and I guess I've always felt lonely purely because of my inexperience with girls past friendship. Unfortunately it's kind of like forced inexperience, which heightens the feeling for me a lot. Fate is always coming up with creative ways to screw me over in the relationship...

I don't understand what you're getting at here, to be honest. Tealeaf summarises my confusion nicely. I didn't say: "Change because society doesn't like you the way you are." That'd be poor advice, and of course everyone should be able to be happy with themselves without having to change for...

A few weeks back I was having a terrible day. Literally everything that could have gone wrong did in a 24 hour period. I lost about a month's worth of work, some relatives fell ill...just a totally crap time of things. By the evening I was really tired and just thoroughly fed up. Which made...

Elementary! :P Don't be so hard on yourself though, Duff. Most people just see Valentine's Day cards as a harmless bit of fun rather than anything more sophisticated. I'm fairly sure they didn't mean to make you feel bad. And even if they did, they wasted their time and money sending it to...

Hey there aspalas. Read your posts. Personally I'd suggest trying to be more guarded and restrained with your emotions when it comes to this girl, and possibly girls in general. It's clear you've known her for a long time and find her attractive. However, the fatal mistake you must not make is...