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I have returned with some status update if anyone still reads this. Unfortunately I haven't heard from him in over 3 weeks. I'm not exactly sure if something triggered from our last conversation. He said he needed to get surgery for a hernia that recently developed, so he'd need to go back to...

I did get a text back from him, he explained that he had a bolt of depression. He was trying to come up with new ideas, that he felt unmotivated and without purpose, but the lack of motivation also brought him peace. He acknowledged that I deserved more from him. I kind of knew this was the...

Thanks for your wisdom :) I think there are varying degree of expectations when it comes to relationships. If there's no expectations, then it's just like 2 roommates living together. But I agree when getting into a new relationship it's best not to have expectations until it's shown. I might be...

Hi TheRealCallie, thank you for sharing your perspectives on the matter. I agree that it's up to the person to also want to get help. This comes with laying down boundaries that can still make this a healthy relationship. Right now I'm putting myself first by trying to busy myself. The sleepless...

Hi random guy, your points are all valid. I feel like I should've probably changed my title. That being said, I know how much of a struggle this can be. I'm hoping for the best, it's been hard not knowing if he's suffering from episodes or just busy like he said, either case I respected his...

Hi Okidoke, are you referring to the above message? I just deleted the original reply and added my input. Thank you.

Hello dirta, Hope all is well. I understand your nostalgia for your friend. Unfortunately friendship don't always stand the test of time, I had great friends that had fallen apart or just not talk to as much anymore. I guess at the end of the day, you can't expect one friend to be your...

36 (F), I am currently in a long distance relationship with someone I have known for 3+ years. I had just gotten out of a relationship 3 months ago, which lasted a yr and half because the person had to move overseas. Before that I was married and divorced (due to alcohol abuse). The current...