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A few pics from Rarotonga.

I never liked the idea of spending on holidays, but Rarotonga is worth it. No more ***** Auckland weather.

Donations to this recipient aren't supported in this country. ^Sorry, that's what happened when I tried to donate.

Not to flex in some immature, egotistical way, but since going to the gym and dressing better a few years ago I've noticed people saying hi to me, and in general being nice and acknowledging me. Women seem to look sometimes. Sometimes guys as well. (Are these gay men? Honestly I can't tell if...

If aggressive enough, they can get labelled femcels or Nice Girls. Athough there's more sympathy for women who struggle with their looks. Body Positivity and fat acceptance are basically an extension of the women's movement, there are no plus sized male models, no male Lizzo's, no push for...

The objective value is that it’s necessary for the continuation of the species and helpful for pair bonding for the purpose of raising children. The subjective value is that it’s a base urge almost all of us have, as well as a validating experience most want.

This is has already been discussed on the forum, and it generally leads nowhere good. I do - or did - identify as a hopeless loner unable to attract women. Now I don't care. Who wants a first relationship in middle age?

Just glad I stopped drinking and wish I’d done so earlier. I keep seeing facebook pics of the same group of acquaintances in various states of drunkenness. I doubt any of them will be alive in 15 years. Getting drunk around a group of deadbeat, sedentary, depressed 40 somethings is NOTHING like...

I can't decide whether the mo makes me look trendy and youthful or the kind of man who cruises a school zone in a white van.

There's an unavoidable voyeuristic element to being an aging loser, when all that's left is to sit back and watch as people half my age go through all of the experiences I didn't, while I continue to age as emotionally stunted individual. As someone who works on a large university campus, I'm...

Jessica Henwick (Game of Thrones)

Middle aged angst from a man in his mid 20s lol.