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My Aunt (75) is more interesting company than most people in my age group. I'm terrified of losing her.

If you've treated with contempt by the opposite *** for most of your life, the idea of being dependent on a female nurse/caregiver would be very uncomfortable. I won't let that happen for myself.

What it provides if anything is comfort, maybe a sense of significance or meaning in a cold and indifferent reality.

I don't buy it. Men and women have roughly equal IQs. Women are typically more conscientious than men. No reason to avoid hiring them. You might have benefitted from marrying young while you were young, but for this to benefit society you'd have to remain married - to a now middle aged person.

Before the 1960's marriage and relationships were not optional for most women. Now women have control over their fertility and access to the job market. So yea, the idea of an average guy as a breadwinner is obsolete, but welfare doesn't have much to do with it. Few women would choose scraping...

I don't think anyone cares about semantics. We know what incel refers to. The term carries a lot of connotations that could be self-fulfilling, but again, for the socially/romantically marginalized, it's probably well past that point.

I'm already an incel by most definitions (single male, never really dated, now old and bitter). I don't envy your generation. Approaching now requires "consent" via vague and easily misread signals. Of course the onus to initiate and risk creep shaming and insults still lies with men though...

No offence. You're an older generation. It's become less socially acceptable in real life Online dating 'is it' as far as a safe environment to show interest without risking being creep shamed.

More cheese.

When I was younger I could my social failures down the fact that the majority of people I was around were sociopathic, terrible human beings. Now, after a yet another meetup cringe where nobody seemed to like me, I have to see myself as the consistent factor here. Starting to think I might have...