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If I had a specific thing I could pinpoint, I'm not against it. Though I think I'm something in the ballpark of normal, it does seem like a complete face/head transplant would probably do me a few favours.

I would say most were genuine laughs. The downside is that people do tend to ask a lot of the same questions, so you end up having the same conversation 12 times, I tried to ask more unique questions to mix it up.

Erm, most seem to be based on location, though it seems likely that interests between two people will be highlighted.

I'm on the usual suspects; Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, POF, OKCupid etc.

Absolutely, and many of my other friends have done very well on dating apps. Not "a different woman every week", but they had matches, some of them turned into long term partners. I get zero matches. Zero. Save for the occasional bot/spam, women are selecting, and they're not selecting me.

Please, any information would be most helpful. Message me if you feel it's a better environment.

I appreciate the thought, but I'm not moving to the Philippines, or "importing a bride" as they say.

It's hard to say, you've only got 4 minutes per person. I'm not so naive as to say I was absolutely perfect, but I made people laugh and showed genuine interest as to what they did for fun. Nobody asked me where I lived or what car I drove, all they knew is that I am a muscular engineer who can...

I'm not a religious individual, and the G-man is not going to fulfil the empty hole I have, despite what they may promise.

I'm not looking for a marriage right now, I know it's a risk anyone takes when they decide to tie the knot. Really what I want is just to be found attractive by more people than zero. That's all I want right now.

That's incorrect, I don't assess myself as ugly, I think I'm somewhere in the ballpark of 'average' (don't we all?) but apparently the general consensus is less forgiving. I don't know, I've never seen a woman who is incapable of finding a man. Even women who are grossly overweight are either...

Apologies for the delayed response, you've clearly put a lot of thought into your post, it felt inappropriate to bash out a quick reply on my phone at work. Am home now, and can go through your questions with due care and attention. I hate to be the bearer of sad tidings, but of the various...

I wouldn’t say I have a poor attitude around money. Financially I’m doing ok. Zero debt, I’m not a home-owner, but owning a home for someone born in the 90s, on one income, is basically impossible without help. I don’t have a large amount of savings, but enough for an emergency. I don’t carry...

I'm a little confused, what's the question about money?

I'm not a 'big' guy, but I have a muscular physique through weight training, which I'm pleased with, but really only gets me compliments from dudes. I dress in clothes the show off my body and flatter me, but still doesn't really get me anywhere. I work in engineering, so it's not like I'm going...

Thirty may be young by comparison, but it's still the oldest I've ever been, and certainly longer than I've known anyone to go through life being treated as ugly & unwanted. I've taken myself abroad a few times, honestly, it just doesn't do a lot for me. Not only did it cost as much as a...

Ehh, it's one of those things. I spent my teen years fairly skinny, with literally every girl and friend telling me to go to the gym to look better. I spend a few years doing that and... tumbleweed. Women swoon over good physiques, it's purely evolutionary. That's not to say it's the only thing...

I've no idea, I'm sure some women find it harder than others to get a date, or that others get more attention. I've never come across a woman in her 30s who hasn't had a boyfriend or any male interested.

So, I also just googled it, and prices start from £1,195. You ask what the harm is in trying? Busting £1.2K on a "professional service" that does not guarantee results. As far as things I do, I'm at a loss. I've asked friends etc, but they don't believe me and seem to think I'm making this up...

Are matchmakers even a thing in the 21st century? Really though, every other person I know has had some success with dating, as in verifiably more than zero. They have had people found them attractive and want to be with them, the suggestion that I need specialist expertise just makes me feel...