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    Should I talk to my therapist?

    See, that's the get-out clause of "if you're open to it working", because if it doesn't work, the blame gets shifted to the patient for "not believing hard enough". Imagine going to your doctor for antibiotics, only to be told their effectiveness relies entirely on how open you are to them...
  2. M

    What would make you happy?

    Being seen as physically attractive by anyone.
  3. M

    Should I talk to my therapist?

    This may be a controversial opinion in this topic, but I do believe that 90% of the time, therapy is a scam. The way I think about it; you go to your therapist, that therapist has a car, that car requires monthly payments, so as long as your therapist has a car, you're going to need therapy.
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    Questions for both Men and Women.

    I have! In the UK, companies that run these events typically group by age (one event for 20s & 30s, one for 30s & 40s, one for 40s & 50s etc). I picked the 20s and 30s as that's my age bracket. The event itself was absolutely fine, it was pretty evenly balanced and there were some very pretty...
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    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    I’m really glad things have turned around for you, my man. I’m sure the feeling of being rejected is somewhat offset by the women who do find you attractive, and the relationships you have. It’s easy not to let a negative comment get you down when you have other positive ones to listen to. This...
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    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    Sadly it’s not location specific, I’ve been made fun of for being ugly on 3 continents, just gotta go to Asia and Australia to get the full set 😂 As much as it’s easy to say not to worry what strangers think, they are sadly the target demographic in the dating world.
  7. M

    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    On the contrary, my friends aren’t the ones calling me ugly, they’re the ones not believing me when I tell them that I do get called ugly regularly. They don’t understand, or they’re just being terribly polite. They’ll say things like “No that’s not true, you’re a great friend!” as though two...
  8. M

    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    The general consensus on me anyway is that I’m “alright from the neck down”, it’s the face stuff I need to somehow change 😂
  9. M

    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    Yeah, that’s a tough one; by the time any woman finds out what you’re packing, you’ll have had to already be doing pretty well. Unless you want to live your life in spandex shorts and tight jeans just to show off? 😂 As an update on this, the situation has got no better. I’ve tried to talk to...
  10. M

    The Nice Guy syndrome. Are you suffering from it?

    I suppose the "I'm not physically abusive, date me!" comes from guys who've seen women who go out with guys who seemingly have very little to offer; they're not big earners, they're not physically attractive, not particularly kind or funny, AND they have no problem hitting their partners. We all...
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    Is "Andrew Tate" still the forbidden word no one should say even if you disagree with him or...?

    To be fair, Joe Rogan doesn't market himself as a self-help guru like Peterson & Tate. He does a fairly good job of getting guests from every side of the spectrum on his show, and just playing devil's advocate with them, he's had everyone from Bernie Sanders to Alex Jones on his podcast, and...
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    Is "Andrew Tate" still the forbidden word no one should say even if you disagree with him or...?

    I find Andrew Tate to be an interesting character, because he's basically playing a character, or a caricature of himself. He knows that by saying outrageous and offensive things, the people who like him will watch his videos, as well as the the people who hate him. And the only way for him to...
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    The Nice Guy syndrome. Are you suffering from it?

    I mean, you understand I can't talk about specific cases such as the men in your family, but most of what I've stated in my post is backed up by facts. Such jobs do usually end up on the 'sexiest jobs for men' lists, along with high-earning ones such as lawyers and investment bankers, and the...
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    Dating website dependency

    I wouldn't say I have a 'dependancy', I am on dating websites, but also go out most weekends to bars & clubs. In the 21st century if you want to date, you'd be an absolute fool not to advertise yourself to a literal marketplace where single people of the opposite *** are also looking for...
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    What are you dreams/goals in life?

    I've been asked this recently, My only goal in life is to no longer be ugly & unwanted. That's it, that's literally all there is that's missing from my life. I'm very happy with my friends, my hobbies, my career, I'm in great shape. The only thing that I want to work towards is not being...
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    The Nice Guy syndrome. Are you suffering from it?

    I've read a little into this, and yes, I do think there is such a thing as 'Too Nice', to the point where you have no 'edge' at all. One theory that was explained to me, was that the ideal, or most desirable man, is one who is capable of violence, but has it under control and can be a family...
  17. M

    Loneliness vs isolation.

    Go for it, my dude!
  18. M

    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    Okay, certainly a lot to unpack there, and I certainly hope your legs aren't aching from all the conclusions you've been jumping to! 😂 My friends themselves aren't the ones making me feel ugly & unwanted, they're as supportive as they can be for people who don't really understand. Sure, they...
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    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    Regarding your question, I wouldn't say I'm trying to force it too much. I'm certainly trying to be pro-active; too many people aren't active enough, won't go out socially or talk to people, and wonder why they're still single. I'm relaxed in each of the environments I'm in, it's just a...
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    Do you feel people don't understand what you're saying?

    I’m pretty open minded, I have liked women who are a little heavier set. Personally I probably wouldn’t go to where it is “obese”, as I believe that’s just an unhealthy lifestyle - I like to be active quite regularly and would want someone who can get involved.
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