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I went out for a while on my own Thursday evening to the nearby mall. Thought it would've been a lot busier than it was. My only goal to start with was to just try to spot girls I could approach and think of an opener if I were to approach them. It was super quiet but I still spotted maybe 6-8...

Friday night date went pretty well. Kissed her a few times and got her to come back to my place, but nothing else happened. Think I did everything I mentioned in the post above pretty well, except complimenting her. Good mix of normal conversation and more sexual/flirty conversation. Also...

Housemate I've been spending a lot of time with my new housemate. She's pretty amazing. Very attractive, fun, positive, authentic, kind. Just a really cool girl. And it's been great getting to know her and spending time with her. At the moment, we're just friends and I don't think we'd ever...

I went to a seminar during the week and was talking to this Spanish girl before the seminar started. She mentioned that she was wanting to go to dance classes. I asked what type of dance. She said salsa. I told her I'd been going to salsa classes and said she should go to the salsa school I've...

A few thoughts...   Last weekend I had one of my best friends and his girlfriend come to visit me from my hometown. There are a couple of things that the weekend with them made me realise...   1. One really good, close friend is worth 100 or more average friends/acquaintances.  I've known this...

Salsa dancing classes can be good. Or any other type of dance classes I suppose. Sports clubs. Meetup groups.

Went out last night with my wingman, Shaun. On the plus side, I talked to quite a few people and approached at least 7 or 8 girls which is a lot more than I've been doing recently.  When we first got out I could see he was feeling anxious about talking to girls. So I got my phone out, set a...

DATES I've had a couple of dates in the past week or so. One was last week with a girl I matched with on Tinder months ago. We were talking on there for a while and I tried to get her on a date at the time but she was busy with other stuff so I gave up on her. A few weeks ago she started up...

Sounds like you've got plenty going for you. And most of the cons are things that can be improved.

I went out for a while last night with my wingman - Shaun. I did talk to quite a few people during the night - both girls and guys. But I was finding it extremely difficult to get myself to go up and talk to girls. Shaun was having the same problem as me, which I think may have made things more...

That's a very big assumption to make that you'll be with your current girlfriend the rest of your life. I wouldn't be too worried about that just yet. I think most guys (and probably women too) have thoughts about cheating while they're in a relationship. I did but never acted on those thoughts...

Friday Night Went out with my wingman. Only one noteworthy interaction to talk about. We went to one bar that my wingman wanted to go to. It was bust but mostly people older than us. I looked around the bar and found two attractive younger girls who were together. Probably the only attractive...

Wasted last Saturday night. Couldn't get into it at all. Ughhhh going out alone is so hard!! :( There's a singles event on here all weekend so that should be alright. Will go there during the day, go out at night. Hopefully not alone this weekend. I bought a voice recorder recently, so I...

I went out alone last night and stuck to the game plan...(sort of). First venue I went to, I talked to someone within 60 seconds. It was another guy and I just said something about his shirt. This was good, off to a good start. There must have been some kind of pub crawl in there at this time...

Wasted Opportunity & Mindset Wasted a really good opportunity. :(  When I was on my flight back earlier in the week, there was a girl sitting in the row next to me. She was attractive, looked around my age and appeared friendly. It was hard to talk to her on the flight because there was...

I've been lifting weights for almost 10 years and worked as a fitness instructor for over 3 years. Happy to answer any questions you have.

Back in my hometown for the weekend and went out with my old wingman Saturday night.  Was really nice to be back. First bar we went to, my wingman was talking to an older woman at the bar. Her friends came over and I started talking to them. There were two girls next to them, who thought I was...

Went to the local library yesterday to do some work. Two girls came over and sat at the table near me. One of them was pretty cute. I got up and walked past them to see if I could get them to notice me. Think it worked. When I got back, I could see them talking to each other quietly then one of...

Had an interesting interaction last night with an absolute beauty. Got her to drive me back to my apartment but couldn't get any further. Going to break it down, mostly for my own benefit to work out what I could’ve done better. I talked to a lot of people during the night, had some good...

Went out last night with a friend of a friend. Talked to a few Colombian girls while I waited for him to arrive.  We went to a nightclub after and he talked to an Asian girl in there. She was with another Asian girl who I talked to for a while but she barely spoke any English so it was...