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Had three dates within the last week. Two of them I went to the beach with in the evening and shared a bottle of wine. The other one, I went to a bar with. Wine on the beach seems to be a good option for dates. It's nice and quiet so it's easy to talk to the girl, without having to compete...

By 'improving your chances of finding someone' I didn't necessarily mean going to the gym every day, doing deep personal development or anything like that... I mean what are you doing to at least give yourself a chance of finding a partner. Are you going out to social events where you could meet...

What have you done in the last five years to improve your chances of finding someone?

Need to make some changes to my approach to all of this. I want to have more time to work on a side project of mine, which I've badly neglected in the past 6 months because online dating has been a bigger focus. Also the idea of a long term relationship is becoming a lot more appealing. Yes...

I did some in person approaching again over the weekend.  First one was a girl I saw at the supermarket. Thought she looked amazing when I first saw her and I started to think it would be a great opportunity to do an approach.  I didn't approach when I first saw her and then I saw her a few...

Dates  Had two dates last weekend, both girls from Tinder. I upgraded to tinder platinum again a few weeks ago so I'm starting to get more matches coming in from there now. The first date was with a European girl. Probably one of the best looking girls I've ever been on a date with, maybe even...

I had two new dates in the last week, one from Bumble and one from Hinge. Did a dinner date with the bumble girl and coffee date with the hinge girl. I was hoping the dinner date would go well because that girl was fairly attractive. But she turned out to be a bit boring. Not sure if maybe she...

Two new dates in the last two nights. Both were from Hinge. They went fairly well but I could've done a few things better.  Date #1 Met up with this Canadian girl at a bar down the road from my new place. Cool girl, easy to talk to. I always tend to get along well with the Canadian girls I...

I've been very busy the past couple of weeks trying to organise a new place to live. Looks like I'll be staying in the same city for now. Which is probably not the best move for dating, as I've mentioned in previous posts, this city is not great for dating. But I do really enjoy the lifestyle...

Dates I've had 3 dates over the weekend. Each one got a little better. Date 1 on Saturday was a day time date. This girl I had been talking to on hinge for a very long time and we were finally able to make plans to meet up.  Considering we'd been talking for so long online, I thought this...

Plans For 2021 The last few days I have been pondering on what I actually want to get out of the next 12 months. It's actually difficult because I am very content with my current situation. But still, I feel it's important to have some sort of direction so I don't waste the year. Dating Plans...

New Years Eve Currently very tired as I write this on new years day 2021.  I had several drinks before hitting the town so by the time I got into the club we went to I was already pretty tipsy. And then I continued to drink as the night went on.  With the alcohol in my system, my fear of...

Online Dating Still got plenty of leads from Tinder and Bumble but setting up dates is proving difficult. Largely because of the time of year, people are busy. I think being just a visitor here puts a lot of girls off too unfortunately.  I'm going to test a few different things like being more...

Hey Beyondshy, good to see someone reads these posts haha.  What non-verbal cues are giving you the impression that women want you to go away? Bumble is just another app like Tinder. I don't have much luck with it where I live but it seems to be better in bigger cities. The only difference is...

Back in my hometown now for the next few weeks. I've had about 23 matches across tinder and bumble since I got here on the weekend but just having trouble converting them into meetups at the moment. One who I should hopefully be going around to her place tomorrow night. She seems like she wants...

Went out and did a few approaches last night. I went with my female housemate and a friend of ours, which was a lot more enjoyable than going out alone.    My housemate and I saw two girls sitting together, I said they looked really young but she thought they were older. So I approached them and...

Finally worked up the courage to do a daytime approach. It was on my lunch break, I saw this girl a few times at the local shopping center. I couldn't get myself to do the approach the first time and then I thought OK I have to do this if I see her again. I did and I was pretty nervous to be...

Had a date on Saturday afternoon. I think as soon as I saw the girl I knew I wouldn't really be very into her. There was really nothing wrong with her and I still had a decent time but she just wasn't my type. Probably should have known even before organising the date. I actually remembered to...

I tend to agree with you. Definitely won't be rushing to get it myself. I'm happy to get vaccinated for something like hepatitis which has years of research behind it, but considering how quickly this is being rushed out, it's definitely a concern what long term consequences could be. Would...

Since we’re just starting the final month of the year, I figure now is a good time to review my progress and results of 2020. If there’s something I haven’t done well, I still have a month to fix it or get a head start for 2021. I’m quite happy with what I have achieved in 2020. Not just in my...