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    Nutrition Journal

    Thought I'd add a quick update since I've changed my diet recently. Now focusing more on muscle gain. I'm doing 4 workout days per week and eating very high calorie + high carb diet on those days then low - moderate carb + high fat on rest days. Average workout day looks something like this...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    I went out by myself last night, hoping to do some approaches but just had absolutely no motivation to talk to anyone.  Perhaps one of the consequences of having moderate success with online dating this year is lower motivation to approach girls in person. It's like I know I can just hop on...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Sunday Night Date Second date with this girl. Almost seemed like she was in a bad mood when we first met up but quickly turned that around. Everything went fairly smooth from there. We had dinner, went for a walk and then I invited her back to my place. Definitely getting a lot more confident...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Thank you Just Games, I appreciate that :) I think I have more success now because I've put a lot of time into figuring it out and finding ways to make it work for me. When I first tried online dating, it didn't really work for me, I couldn't get any dates from it. Since then I've spent a lot...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Wednesday Night Date Had a date with an older woman from Tinder who I had been on a date with at the beginning of the year and then matched with again recently. She was a little difficult to talk to and I found myself carrying the conversation much of the time.  I still enjoyed her company but...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Much better on last night's date!  The girl was more outgoing and easier to talk to than the one from Friday night, which made things easier from the get go.  Spent a lot more time talking about dating and more sexual topics with her. My eye contact was also very good.  I think having a few...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Last Saturday night I had a third date with one of the girls I've been seeing lately. Although I usually enjoy first dates, it's a lot easier to relax and enjoy the date when you already know the girl better, you know she already likes you and you know you'll sleep with her that night lol. Last...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Saturday Morning Date Had a coffee date with an Indian girl from Hinge. She was actually far more attractive than I expected. I don't really like doing these daytime dates because it inherently has a more platonic feel to it. It just seems more natural to flirt and be more sexual at night when...
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    Can't get the girls I like to like me back - Help!!!!

    I don't think you need to be a ******** artist or an ******* to have game. Closcrew, why don't you show us how much game you have by posting some of your advice in here?
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    I don't have much to report on this week..I'm just using this post as an opportunity to get some things out of my head and into writing. Online Dating I'm getting dinner tonight with the girl I went on a date with in my previous post. This is the first girl I've met in a while who I've...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Saturday Night - going out I went out on Saturday night with a housemate to a few of the local bars. It's really the first time I've gone out to bars since they reopened after lockdown. Wasn't very busy where we went and I was definitely feeling some anxiety about going and approaching girls...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Finally getting some better outcomes from my dates again! Four dates in the past week and 3 of them resulted in at least a kiss... Date 1 Canadian girl..we met up at the bar near me. I do like talking to Canadian and American girls, usually find them easier to talk to than Australian girls...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Not really sure exactly where I'm going wrong on my dates lately but it's quite frustrating.  Firstly there was the date with the Russian girl. She said at the end of the date that she'd definitely like to meet up again and seemed very genuine about it. I thought it was almost certain we'd meet...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    To be honest, I think it probably was in many ways. I don't want to sound jaded or anything but I think most people would agree with this.. Because of social media and online dating there are a lot of females with very inflated egos. They can post a bikini photo on Instagram and get 200+ likes...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Ok.. think I need a plan for the next month to get things moving more. Thought I may as well write it out here since it will make me think it through more thoroughly.  I've been able to get more dates in the past month which is good. But they just haven't gone anywhere. Maybe things with the...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Uhhh why do females have to be so confusing?! haha I was going to meet up with the girl from my hometown again tonight. Thought it was almost an absolute certainty.  And then she texts me a few hours before and says she's tired and would have to cancel. These things don't normally bother me...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    DATES Had two more dates over the last few days with girls I've mentioned previously. Sunday night was with the Russian girl I met at Salsa classes and Tuesday night with the girl from my hometown who's here on holiday. Both dates went fairly well and both girls said they would like to meet up...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Saturday Dates I've mentioned in a previous post that most of my Hinge matches come from a nearby city. So I decided to drive there on Saturday and organise 3 dates for that day.. DATE 1 It went fine. Just didn't feel like there was a lot of chemistry between us. Not sure if there was much I...
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    Nutrition Journal

    Thanks Finished! Wish I knew what reversed your hair loss haha. Interested to hear your thoughts on the latte! I love them. They have tumeric ones as well but I think the cacao mint flavour would taste a lot better lol.
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Updates... Hinge - I've been getting a lot of matches but most of them are in a nearby city so it's hard to meet up with them. Might go there for a day next weekend and try to meet up with 2 or 3 of these girls that day. I've been using Instagram and Instagram stories to keep myself on their...
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