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    There has never been a better time for online dating

    I know some people on here don't like online dating. But even if you've struggled with online dating in the past, I'd urge you to get onto online dating apps right now (if you're single). With everyone stuck at home in quarantine, online dating has never been so good. I've had more success...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Funny how my dating and *** life is probably better right now than it's ever been and I haven't been to a bar or club in well over a month because of coronavirus. Maybe I should just stick to online dating even when the quarantine is over. I've hung out with a different girl each night for the...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    FLIRTING  I mentioned in my last post that I would practice my flirting skills with the South American girl. And I did it pretty well. I picked her up on Saturday night, drove her back to my place and then we watched Netflix.  The thing I did best, was the use of my tonality. Even when we were...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    DATE REPORT Just had a date with a girl from Tinder this morning. Thought I'd write up about it while it's fresh in my memory. We'd been talking on Tinder during the week and I'd suggested that she come over to my place for wine on Friday night. She initially agreed to it but then cancelled on...
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    Nutrition Journal

    Think I've achieved somewhat of a breakthrough with 'hacking my mental performance.' My levels of focus, clarity of thought, motivation and creativity have been incredible this week. It's like I'm operating on a whole new level. Like I've got access to parts of my brain that were locked up...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Met up with the South American girl I mentioned in my previous post last night. We’d made plans for me to pick her up from her place then drive her back to my place for wine. All bars and restaurants are closed because of coronavirus, so it’s a good reason to invite girls straight to your...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Texting I've been working a lot on my texting over the past few weeks, since going out and meeting girls in person isn't really an option anymore. And I think I have improved a lot. Been getting some very good responses from these girls on Tinder. There are probably 5-6 girls from Tinder/Bumble...
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    Nutrition Journal

    I did about 2-3 weeks of the carb cycling described in the post above. It seems like a decent diet to follow for healthy muscle gain but I think it's too much in conflict with my goal of developing mental sharpness. The high carb days, I found my energy was pretty good but focus and mental...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Coronavirus It would seem that with the coronavirus outbreak, online dating is going to be the best and safest option of meeting new people for now. I definitely will be staying away from bars and nightclubs for a while, just not worth the risk. But it will be a good opportunity to work on my...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    thanks LF! Hope you've been well :)
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    DATE REPORTS Wanted to do a write up on the two dates I had yesterday from Tinder/Bumble. FIRST DATE This one was a bit disappointing because the girl didn’t really look like her tinder photos. Nonetheless.. we still had a nice chat. I still used it as an opportunity to practice some stuff...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Since last week, I have.. Had two Tinder dates One of them was a fairly short coffee date but went really well and we have plans to see each other again in a few days The other one also went well – probably one of my strongest dates ever in terms of the way I expressed myself and developed...
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    Nutrition Journal

    I'm going to experiment with a new diet strategy for the next month at least. It's basically carb cycling - high carb intake some days and very low carb/high fat on other days. There are a couple of reasons for this... 1. I want to build some more muscle mass up again and I'm hoping the high...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    FRIDAY NIGHT I was actually motivated to go out for the first time in a while after reading some of the material in the mastermind group during the week. It was worth joining just for that motivation. My goal for Friday night was to do at least 3 approaches. Small target but I just wanted to...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    I want to expand on that previous post. I'm sick of not moving the needle like I want to with this dating stuff. Sure, I've come a long way since my first journal but I'm still not where I want to be with this. I'm so sick of going out at night (or in the day) and feeling like a complete loser...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    Didn't end up going to Singapore because of all the coronavirus stuff unfortunately. But I'm in my hometown instead. Last night I went out and did a few approaches with some of the other guys. First one was two girls together. Opened up really well, got their attention straight away and had...
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    Nutrition Journal

    Since my last post I've reintroduced dairy, chicken, oats, etc... Just didn't make any noticeable difference when I eliminated them. Still really struggling with my hair. It seems like every week, I lose more and more hair in the shower. I'm now suspecting it's more of an environmental thing...
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    Bender's Journal: Part 2

    So I've really done **** all in the past few weeks, in terms of social/dating stuff. Besides talking to a few girls on tinder. But I'm off to Singapore next week, so that will be a good opportunity to create some good stories. Here are my goals for my week in Singapore.. Meet people on...
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    Nutrition Journal

    For the past 3 weeks I've eliminated dairy, nuts, beans, peas, oats, soy, chicken and whey protein. Just trying to see if I could have any food sensitivities.  But it doesn't seem to have made any difference. I haven't felt any different, mental performance has been roughly the same and it...
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    I want to get married but cant

    Being unemployed isn't the real reason you can't get married. Unless you already have a partner you want to marry and you financially can't afford to get married. Even then, unemployment isn't really the reason. What's the real reason you can't get married?
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