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  1. VanillaCreme

    What life lessons did you learn the hard way?

    That reminds me of this I heard a few months ago: "Don't react; Respond." And it made me really think of how I handle things.
  2. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    When you know you want to reach out but you don't want to be a burden in any way.
  3. VanillaCreme

    Being forever single

    For me, I realized that Jeremy taught me so much when he didn't have to. That's what relationships should be about. It's more than simply being with someone. Family is one thing; You're kind of supposed to learn from them. But when you gain people in your life that don't have to do anything for...
  4. VanillaCreme

    Being forever single

    I didn't realize how unimportant most people are to me until I lost my guy. I know that sounds so mean and probably doesn't make sense, but I know what I'm trying to say. I will never claim my relationship was perfect, but for anyone else to ever attempt to step into my life, they need to truly...
  5. VanillaCreme

    Being forever single

    Perhaps it doesn't happen for everyone. But it does happen. For some of us, it doesn't last as long as we think. Some of us don't get a happily ever after forever. It does happen, though. You just can't defeat the idea before you get to that part of your story.
  6. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    Try sprinkling a good amount of baking soda and then some vinegar on it. Let it sit for about 20 minutes, then rinse. It might lift some of the stain. I'm thinking right now how I forgot about this song. Actually a banger. I love how Spotify plays a bit of everything for me.
  7. VanillaCreme

    What are you thinking right now?

    Had an extra hour and I still stayed up for no reason.
  8. VanillaCreme

    Are fat people allowed to have standards?

    Late to this party as well, but I'll just throw my two cents in as a fat girl myself. Sharing the last recent experience with a guy that I have absolutely no interest in, a part of me fully believes that he said anything to me because he thought I would "just go with it" and if he knew me better...
  9. VanillaCreme

    Social anxiety can be really draining.

    I don't think I have anxiety of any sort, but I do know that it can be suffocating to talk to someone. It's not the person, and it's not about what is being talked about. I can't really explain how I feel sometimes about it myself, other than just being exhausted over it. And I get it - most...
  10. VanillaCreme

    I cooked a turkey really fast today.

    I like to use drippings for gravy. Put it over the meat, some rice, and some vegetables. (y)
  11. VanillaCreme

    Unattractive

    Same, but I'm not approachable because I don't want to be approached. And people still want to tell me life stories.
  12. VanillaCreme

    I cooked a turkey really fast today.

    Looks good. Them air fryers are awesome. I can't wait to get one to try it out. I just throw all whole birds in my granite ware roaster and into the oven.
  13. VanillaCreme

    Unattractive

    From the things that I've recently seen, I guess technically being single now and someone bothering me, the bar is in hell. Be your own bar.
  14. VanillaCreme

    the last thing you ate

    Burnt hotdog on a burnt hotdog bun. I need to burn it more next time. They were not burnt enough.
  15. VanillaCreme

    I hate... that he loves me?

    For me, it was seeing myself through their eyes. I see what I was to them. It made me appreciate myself, and what I did for them. Because what they all taught me in life is so essential to who I am today. I'm okay with myself because I finally understand just how much they truly appreciated me...
  16. VanillaCreme

    Unattractive

    It's the "I don't act out anymore" for me. :LOL: I prefer not to, but ten years ago, I'd be so ready to throw fists, and wouldn't care a bit. I rarely ever have to now because I actively avoid most people.
  17. VanillaCreme

    Unattractive

    Perfect example of the "nice guy" thing. It's sad because they know they don't have to be like that, and they still insist on being exactly like that.
  18. VanillaCreme

    What drives you crazy

    When someone adds 17 things to a cheesesteak and still calls it a Philly cheesesteak. It's not. Call it anything else, but it's not that. A Philly cheesesteak is the steak, cheese whiz, and onions. That's it. When you start adding other things or different cheeses, it's not a Philly anymore. My...
  19. VanillaCreme

    Unattractive

    The "nice" part of that gets me. Ugly? Sure, okay, that's fine. I personally don't ever think anyone is ugly. But nice? Red flag. Especially the whole "nice guy" thing. A lot of us have learned that they're not so nice, and if they are "nice" it's only to get something out of someone because...
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