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  1. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    That's absolutely fair. I've spent a lot of time on this and I genuinely believe I've picked the styles that suit me best and flatter me, but it's clearly not doing anything. Annoying voice? I don't think so. Don't get me wrong, it's not exactly a sexy deep voice, but I get told I'm well...
  2. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    I'm not sure what that first part meant, but I assume it's not good! Really though, there are just some things that women say they like, but the silent part is "... on really hot guys". The whole "I love a man in a suit!", followed by sharing photos of models in suits, but in real life they're...
  3. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    I really have no idea. It's been that way throughout my life, through a variety of haircuts and styles, that just seems to be one of those things. While I wouldn't point to my features as "model worthy", there's no obvious thing that I would point to. Sure, it's been said several times...
  4. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    From "market research", it certainly seems to be in the face area, which is annoying because there's very little I can do about that. My diet is fairly clean, and over years of exercise have developed a fairly athletic physique, with broad chest and shoulders. I have also been referred to...
  5. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    That's exactly my point, I'd be doing it for selfish reasons, and my enjoyment of that would hinge entirely upon meeting a girl who liked me, which doesn't seem like a good enough reason to spend my weekends volunteering. For sure, and I'm doing my best not to become bitter or depressing about...
  6. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    To be honest, I don't see the volunteering thing being a viable option for me. One aspect is time: between a regular 40hr work week, going to the gym 3-5 times a week, seeing friends, going to meet-up events, and having time for myself, my week is usually fairly busy. I believe adding an extra...
  7. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    Sadly not! And you'd be surprised, women outnumber men on the swing scene, to the point where any viable male is typically snapped up very quickly. There are a handful of fairly old men who remain single, but for my age and ability it's an anomaly to not be wanted. That's an interesting...
  8. M

    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend, Too Ugly?

    So, this is a weird thing to post, as I really don't know what to do, but it's weighing me down and nobody seems to give any constructive help. I have tried posting on similar forums, but have had very little constructive help, mostly people don't seem to read this and understand the problems I...
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