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Yes, Brad Pitt will still have countless women drooling over him no matter what he wears because of his looks and status. However, a short, ugly man who dresses well will still be more appealing than if he dressed like he was homeless. For those people who are skeptical, have you tried to...

I agree. That's one piece of advice many fashion experts give. Wear what's comfortable for you and fits your lifestyle. The function of your clothes is one of the most important factors of your purchase decision. Buy clothes you are going to wear often. If you’re wearing something that...

I disagree. I have never heard this before. I've heard people say a guy driving a big car is a cope. But never heard that with dressing well. Women love a guy who dresses well. I think you're mistaking dressing well with being overly flashy with the way you dress. There's a difference. You...

True, this is about changing the things you can change in order to improve your chances.

Nice, I love Salsa, though I am still a beginner and learning a lot. Here is me dancing the salsa in Miami:

Yeah, just like with all things you want to improve at, you've got to be willing to step out of your comfort zone a little bit :)

Thanks. I hadn't thought about that one, but good point. A lot of guys do get really insecure in relationships, especially with really beautiful women. What kind of dancing do you do?

Definitely no one should be shamed for it. But it does happen all the time in our society. And it's a source of shame for many guys. They even made Hollywood movies about it like the 40 YO Virgin.

11. You Can’t Lead If Someone Else Is Leading At these dance sessions, they will usually rotate partners every time so you can practice the movements with a different person each time. Once in a while, I will meet a girl who will try to lead me through her movements. It’s usually a beginner who...

7. People Are People, Not Gods My insecurity with being Asian in a predominantly white environment has plagued me more than it should have my whole life. There are plenty of people who treat me as equals and I have learned that I have to stop sabotaging myself because of this. This usually comes...

I started going to drop-in dance classes to meet people and improve on the masculine traits I was lacking. I heard it was a good way to learn how to lead and be more assertive, which I lacked as a typical nice guy. But man, I learned so much more. Fast forward a couple years, I have now done...

OMG, sexist :ROFLMAO: And yes, I'm j/k. No need to reply, but you prob will.

Congrats! Glad you found the love of your life :)

Yeah, I think inexperience and past failures play a big role. I think there's a mental block there for those who have failed so much in the past. It's like a fat person who loses a lot of weight and looks great but thinks they still look bad. Plus, women can sense when a guy doesn't have a...

Very interesting video. Thanks for posting this. I like these types of discussions that dive into this. Like the guy in the video said, when we have these discussions, too often people are quick to accuse the guys who are discussing this of blaming women. And that's not the case at all...

Yeah, that is definitely true. It is less nerve wracking to be sure. I still find it good practice though to talk to everyone though. Especially people you might not have much in common with. I find it really helps you develop your conversation skills.

I already mentioned that I have tried that for 1-2 years without success. If I don't show any romantic interest at all, then women just see me as invisible. I would go to these events, and it was just hi and bye, and nothing ever came out of it.

Yeah, I've spent so much time crafting my online profile when most of the time, it doesn't even get to the point where any of that matters. I think that's the thing that most guys will struggle with. Getting that initial interest that will give them time to showcase the good qualities they...

I would say turn lemons into lemonade. Use the opportunity to improve your social skills. I have been to many meet ups where the demographic was not what I had hoped it would be. A lot of older women. I used that opportunity to have great conversations with them though. I, like many guys...

Here's an interesting dating experiment I came across that I thought I'd share (this is not mine btw). After the 2nd experiment, so many women wrote to me that I shut it down. I don’t like deceiving people, even online, so I don’t feel good about this, but I had to know in the name of...