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Saying that I have been harshly rejected is not blaming women that I am not in a relationship. That makes no sense whatsoever.

If I were blaming women, I wouldn't have been trying to improve myself for the last decade. But anyhow, yeah, I will just agree to disagree on the rest cause this isn't really going anywhere.

Who is that? Is she an actress? Looks familiar.

I never said you can't understand because of gender. I'm saying you can't understand because you never experienced the type of rejection that I do when I approach. Now, the reason why you never experienced it may be because of gender. Because like I said before, guys are still expected to...

I definitely agree with this. That's why I continue to work on myself. Yeah, I can definitely see how that can get annoying. Maybe the person is having a bad day or I'm like the tenth guy who has approached her. It doesn't make the rejection sting any less, but I try to be more understanding...

I think the organic method is very tough for a shy, introverted guy. Like I mentioned earlier, I did try that for 1-2 years. Just going to meet up events and having fun and not approaching, like the Tucker Max dating advice. But nothing ever came of that. Maybe it's just my demeanor or how I...

Thanks. I agree. Sometimes things do just happen organically. I guess just with me, it has never seemed to be able to happen like that. I did try that method for a while. Of just going to events and not even trying to approach women. And just seeing if things would magically happen for me...

Either you're intentionally misreading my posts, or you're skipping over what I said entirely. I am saying it is silly that you are telling people they shouldn't feel a certain way when you haven't gone through the same stuff they have. I mentioned nothing about anything that you went through...

It's completely different situations though. You telling people that they can't be humiliated unless they allow it when you haven't been through what they have been through is silly to me. And that's the main point I was making. Not that you haven't suffered in any other way at all. If we...

You're making quite a lot of assumptions yourself. Anyhow, I stand by what I said. Most women will not have to experience the same types of cruel rejections that men get when they approach. As far as other cruelties you have experienced, I never spoke on that. So not sure what was even the...

Yeah, I'm not saying a woman doesn't experience rejection. Just saying the way a guy experiences rejection is vastly different and can be a lot more cruel than the way women do. Just look at the example Unsigned gave. Most women don't have to go through something like that. And that's a...

Well, I would consider this asking a stranger out. Even if you do talk to them for a bit. Good for you then, cause not many women do this. But again, I don't think your experiences are comparable to a guy's. The fact that you are even allowed to talk to them for a while shows that. Have you...

Well, then that's my point. A woman will rarely ever experience rejection the way a guy will because they don't approach guys and actually ask them out. You become friends with a guy and then if he doesn't want more than that, then it's no big deal. You don't have to experience someone...

If you can't ask a stranger out or for their number, what else is left? Just online dating? Being introduced through friends? What if you don't have a lot of friends who can introduce you? Seems really limiting.

How many times have you approached a stranger and asked them out?

Yes, but cool people get rejected much less if at all. If you get rejected fifty times in a row, your spirit is going be broken. You don't develop an immunity to it. For most women, they never really have to experience this because for the most part, guys are the ones expected to approach...

Yeah you assumed right though. There is a lot of rejection and humiliation that I've experienced first hand. That's what comes with it though I guess. No way around that.

Yeah, there are definitely some places that I think are more ideal than others. I’ve tested out a lot of the places that the dating advice online lists out. Some of it is horrible. I believe some of these people just list out ideas to put online without ever actually having tried them out. Here...

This is something I've struggled with a lot throughout my life, and I'm sure other guys have too. So I thought I'd make this thread so people could give their tips on the best places to meet women. This is the meat and potatoes of it. I was listening to the Mating Grounds podcast, and one...

I never said it was a fact. I said based on the surveys I've seen, that's the conclusion I've come to. I don't mind people disagreeing with my opinion. I am all for healthy debate. But attacking my character and YouTube channel, comparing me to a snake oil salesman, and accusing me of...