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Men who are not 'bad boys' do bring more to the table then just 'being nice'.  The problem is the women who prefer 'bad boys' are not interested in what they have to offer.  I make short films, I'm an advanced cook with numerous personal recipes that keep growing, travel frequently,  have a...

============================ While reading up on relationship advice I came across the whole "Bad Boy vs Nice Guy" thing. Now what surprised me was how almost every single article encouraged men to behave as a 'bad boy' to attract women and completely fulfill their 'manliness'.  Living like a...

There is one very important thing to keep in mind about a mentor - they are not always right. They could have your best interests in mind but that does not mean what they tell you to do is the right way to go about things. I know this from personal experience. I've done some very dumb...

If someone is showing a lack of interest in you by ignoring or blowing off your texts dont take it too personally, they just didnt click with you. Consider that not everybody is going to click with you, most people, even "popular" folk, only have 1-2 truly close friends who are interested in...

Its not your fault that you havent had a girlfriend yet.  You never intentionally chose to do certain things in order to avoid having a girlfriend.  Yes, perhaps me, you and others could have made different choices that would have increased our chances of having a girlfriend/wife by now.  But...

As for the oldest person you should date? Its hard to say because people mature at different rates.  Women tend to mature quicker then guys. 31 yrs old guy with a 23 yrs old girl is a bit of a stretch but I dont think its too bad if you two are in the same ballpark in terms of maturity.  But...

Hi sad_lonely, I have some things in common with you. 30s, never had a girlfriend, trouble finding/keeping work, cant seem to ever be "one of the guys" and an inability to stomach repetitive jobs no matter how easy they may be. My advice? Try to find out what the source is behind your...

This explains why I feel the way I do perfectly. However, if I show myself compassion for my shortcomings and failures, it doesnt mean others will. I've been passed on by employers and potential partners because of my shortcomings and failures. Because of that Im afraid to put myself out...

I dont know. Ive never been close enough to be attracted to someone's traits. Ive crushed on the personality of some people, but because I never got close to them Im not sure if there was really anything 'real' about it. Alot scarier question is am I the type of person someone, anyone would...

People who found someone when they werent looking probably have a dozen friends, go to parties and gatherings every week, and more. They're constantly in a position to meet someone from the opposite *** who might like them. In fact I'm sure they have to say no to alot of people. If you tell...

Im living off of 2 small pieces of frozen chicken a day. I've lost 25 pounds in 2 months. This guy I know said hes worried about how thin I've gotten. My pants are falling off. The other day I thought there was a hole in my stomach. It was just really sunk in and it scared me. I can barely...

Yeah I hate when people say that. I dont want to be in a relationship because Im unhappy. Im lonely yes but not unhappy. I want to be in one because it feels like Im missing out on a really big part of life. Being in love with someone is one of the best experiences you can have as a human if...

Hang in there buddy. Im 30 and in the exact same situation. In all honesty, Im looking at my situation, and I dont see light at the end of the tunnel. It seems like for me to get into a relationship there will have to be some sort of fluke accident, like getting stuck in an elevator for an...

I think talents and skills are like physical beauty, something that can attract you to somebody from a distance but in the end they really arent important to a lasting relationship Personally I find somebody who is curious and inquisitive more attractive then somebody who is talented at a...

This is what you need to fix. It wont be easy and it wont happen overnight. Trying doing things that make you feel better about yourself. Start working out and get into shape. Buy some nice clothes. The more you feel better about yourself, what other people think about you (real or...

Are you sure this is true? Even if you felt nobody has ever been interested in you, that doesnt mean thats the case. I've probably had a dozen crushes in my life. And only 2 actually really knew I had affection for them. Its extremely likely someone has had a crush on you but you just didnt...

Then this thread has been a terrible mistake. If a mod would delete it, that would be great. Otherwise, lets let it drop to the bottom and die.

While this topic may have sad stories, hopefully it reminds some of us that in the past there has been hope, and its likely to present itself again. I had thought no girl had ever liked me or showed interest in me but thinking back, that wasnt really the case. In High School I was in an art...

Hopefully all the changes and improvements work out for the better for you. Very impressed that you've identified alot of issues and plan to fix them. Thats the only way forward