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I find it funny that there is no 'are you suffering from the bad guy syndrome' articles/books when everyone agrees those guys do not provide quality relationships. Just shows how garbage our society truly is and how it's taboo to criticize women even constructively. Men are raked through the...

For me its like this 1/3 = Connection 1/3 = Looks 1/3 = Shared Interests I can initially be attracted to someone by any of those 3. But for me to really, really like them I need all 3.

Obviously its me. It's not everyone else. I yearn so much for someone who can truly be my best friend. Whether thats a man as a friend, or a woman as a possible romantic partner. I'm almost 40 and have never had a best friend. Just wish I wasn't such a freak, I wish I was like everyone...

So we've all heard this buzz word, but I have a big issue with it. What type of person comes to your mind when you think of someone who is "high value"? How about someone who you would tag as "low value"? What do you imagine? It's likely when imaging a 'high value' person you saw someone...

This test has been a godsend for me I've always told everyone in my family that I felt different from almost everyone, that I didn't fit in. I mean I remember calling my mother less then a year ago and telling her 'There's nobody like me. There's nobody like me.' When the test told me I was...

This video is a pretty good watch, but it articulates what I've been saying for a while... Incels are men with serious mental health issues that are the product of a sick social system. Quick example to illustrate this. At my job one guy is designated with the task of restocking all the...

It seems your position is this: once you get the number, ask for an in person meeting as soon as possible. That sounds logical for a few reasons and is something I'll strongly consider doing next time. However the entire situation wasn't as clear cut as you make it out to be. With one woman...

Yeah, the bar is set pretty low, especially for men over 35. I don't think people realize that exceptionally good looking men and women are actually rare. The vast majority of people are 3-5 out of 10 looks-wise. Even people with a 7/10 face are hard to come by. You may see two or three a...

These are experiences from two women I've met multiple times face to face in real life and held conversations with in person. It appeared we got along well in both instances. I can't help but feel I was friendzoned before I got their number and thus their willingness to give it to me and thus...

Not a shallow fangirl, but someone who is genuinely interested in getting to know me, not someone who is indifferent to that prospect because they would actually prefer someone different/better. Yes other people wont have the same perceptions or opinions, but there is such a thing as common...

Maybe not so much disinterest, but more indifference. To me either one is equally bad. I understand taking a long time to reply to a more complex question, but not replying to questions at all (which has happened to me) or taking many hours to reply to questions that could be answered with one...

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https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test After taking this test I discovered I was INFJ. It explained a huge deal about my social issues, like how Im not able to do small talk, which is such a huge part of social interactions.

A few I have learned. Some of these behaviors may be a sign of narcissism more then lack of interest, but they're still negative either way. Feel free to add more # If they take a long time to text back consistently, they aren't interested. I had this one girl who consistently took 6-8 hrs...

Physical attractiveness isn't limited to women, it can be found in men. However I do not know any men who act truly feminine/girly. That's why I value that in women more then anything else, because its completely unique to their gender. Of course for me to be attracted romantically to a woman...

A single life isnt bad. I just wish I didnt have this perpetual desire to be with a woman. It's simple biology. I'm hard wired to want to be with a woman. You cant turn it off. So it's going to gnaw at my brain until I find someone. About confusing men and women to be the same and equal -...

Turn ons someone who can see things like the beach and still be amazed by it no matter how many times they see it. someone with a wide variety of interests in food, music, movies, fun someone who is always trying to improve themselves someone who is always interested in learning new things...

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/why-are-there-more-lonely-single-men-than-ever-before :cautious: When is the world going to realize telling men to 'man up' in the face of their problems is obscenely sexist? Because its cold, unloving, and reeks of the sexist stereotype that men should never...

Even though this experience hurt me, Im not going to allow it to stop me from putting myself out there emotionally. I feel like people need to know who I am, and they cant if Im holding back too much emotionally, so my feelings will continue to get hurt if I get ghosted again i dont get the...

We had texted pretty regularly for a little over a week. She said I was funny, we chatted about a shared interest, she used lots of silly emojis. We were just a 4-5 days from meeting together for the first time, then nothing. All the insecurities I have feel so justified now. Yeah, there is...