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It makes me wonder if women really do find most men unattractive, or because of their position of gate keeper in the dating world they know they can afford to be extremely picky.  I think it might be a little bit of both? I mean, sometimes men are ridiculous in what they like.  For example...

It's stereotypical, but I don't think all stereotypes are bad, just because they are a stereotype.

This study says women find 80% of men to look below average.   https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e Is this true?

Not really a trait, but a woman cleaning, cooking, etc is very attractive, even sexy.  I imagine it's the same when women watch men work on cars, or do heavy manual labor etc. I hope women don't buy the SJW thinking that such things are beneath them.

You can't win. You're talking to someone in your age bracket. The conversation is going well

He sounds like a predator. Surely he senses your lack of confidence, and is taking advantage of it. You deserve much better then that.

Take the lead in helping both of you become more outgoing. Whats stopping you from being the one who organizes an evening at a concert for the two of you? Most women want men to be the leader in a relationship. You can start learning to be that leader now. From your post, it sounds like...

Today it dawned on me the primary reason Id like a relationship is I wanted someone to validate me.  I was watching a movie where the parents of a child were watching her with pride in a school play and they congratulated her and complimented her afterwards.  And I realized thats what I wanted a...

Greta Gerwig is pretty cool

I know you werent being too serious but why would they be considered weirdo for not caring about that crap.  Men and women who are aware of and annoyed by the whole thing are sadly the small minority of the population, usually an outcast, so its not so easy to just find someone like that. ...

Life goes on without much of a bump if you really arent invested in the person you approached. I didnt eat for 4 days after I was rejected. The pain was up there with what I felt after my sister died.

The reason why I ask is because theres more going through my mind then just fear of rejection when approaching someone. Im also concerned about making her feel uncomfortable if she doesnt feel the same way, as well as making our professional relationship awkward afterwards. Theres also the...

Its eating me up right now. The issue is the apparent lack of control I have to improve the situation.  If you want food or water, you can just go to the store and buy it. Wanting love and a relationship with the opposite *** is a sanity eroding waiting game that you have so little control...

When a guy approaches you that you are not attracted to and its obvious he's interested in you, how does that make you feel? Disgusted? Flattered even though you dont like him? Does he seem like a creep?

I opened up to one of my sisters about my issues and even wept in front of her.  She didnt seem to really care and yeah, she's used it against me later.  In fact almost everytime I've told one of my sisters 'what your doing is hurting me' they've always used it to hurt me at a later time. BUT I...

I think it might make you uncomfortable because your not use to seeing it.  I've seen my sisters and mother all cry numerous times, and while its still sad to see them do it, you become more accustomed to it.  Its like how people wont feel uncomfortable at seeing someone get mad and upset when...

More unrealistic expectations dashed. I guess its better to learn about that now then through first hand experience.

I think this is misinterpretation  Its like how some men may label a woman who gives orders to someone as 'bossy' Just like how some women may label a man who shows vulnerability from time to time as 'weak' These people need to loosen up their view of gender roles and stereotypes just a bit

I have an elderly aunt who we helped move to our city a couple years ago.  We've been helping her get groceries, go to the doctor, and a variety of other things. She called me the other day asking if I would take her to the doctor.  Then, at the end of the phone call she just started...

The low rated qualities arent any more generic then the ones rated highly. You guys are giving these people too much credit.  Again I doubt they are thinking things through as much as you guys are giving them credit for.  A good percentage of people on dating sites have *** on the first date. ...