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Not in a grocery store, you don't. People are there to go about their business and likely don't want to be harassed by strangers trying to pick them up.

Like I've said numerous times, I refuse to pay for romance and/or intimacy. If I can't meet someone naturally I'd rather not bother.

People in grocery stores are there to shop for groceries, not to find a partner. I don't know what it's like in the U.S. but here in the U.K. people in supermarkets barely even look at each other.

No thanks. I'll pass.

Some good insight there, my friend. Thanks.

Wow. Thanks for making me feel like I'm the lowest of the low. 😃

I'm slightly confused, Cenotaph. What do you mean by better living conditions?

A woman with those intentions wouldn't even get her foot in the door with me. I may be starved of intimacy, but I'm no fool.

If she wasn't attracted to me on a physical level, but there was a deep feeling of love and understanding between us, then possibly that COULD work, but I'm by no means certain. If the only reason she 's with me is to stay in the country, absolutely not. She could find some other mug to use.

Duly noted. Thanks.

I doubt they'd want to be romantically or sexually involved with me in the first place if they found me hideous. I have a hard time imagining how that would work.

That's your outlook, which you're entitled to, but I don't share your sentiment. I can find women of most age ranges attractive.

You know what I mean. If I ever do have *** (I wouldn't bet on it ever happening now), I want it to be with someone who either loves me or is attracted to me. Preferably both, but I'd settle for just one.

I'm curious to know what you deduced about this chap.

Absolutely not. That may be a fitting solution for some men, but not for me. My way of thinking is, "Why should I have to pay for something the vast majority of society gets to do for free"? It's kind of a cold, calculating way to phrase it, but that's the gist of it. I can think of few things...

Like I've mentioned before, I'd much rather be a life-long virgin than pay for intimacy.

I'm mildly overweight and on sickness benefit due to mental health problems. My hygiene is good, I don't watch cartoons but I barely ever leave my house these days. I'm somewhat reclusive and I've developed mild agoraphobia and social phobia.

I've never in my life seen anyone being asked out or approached in any romantic way. And I've spent a lot of time in pubs.

Why do you think this is?

I don't see why not. I'm open to all points of view.