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  1. 4No1

    Does obsessing about a problem help you solve it?

    Very true, but it's not so easy to do :( I also can't stop thinking about things that can happen and that I can't change. It takes so much power and leads to the unpleasant physical conditions .
  2. 4No1

    Does obsessing about a problem help you solve it?

    The only thing it helps me to do - is to increase a cortisol level :(
  3. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    Yeap! I'm thinking of asking some people join me for a walk(some people I don't know, just ask in a channel) and then I'm thinking what if I don't like them, what if they are stupid! how can I get rid of them them, I'll have to stay with them for 8 hours. 15 years ago I did it easily and even...
  4. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    If my weight was normal, would I be more successful? :rolleyes: Do I really believe in it?
  5. 4No1

    War and other problems

    I'm not so sure it was exactly like this. If you(not exactly you of course) are collective and humanistic and united, it's not so easy to make you kill each other. I'd like the idea, that there is only "we" in this Universe, not "we" and "they". Because "we" and "they" help people do bad...
  6. 4No1

    War and other problems

    Generally talking, I don't think dying of ilness/traum/anything else is any better then of bullet. I think that a suicidal behavior is more inner thing. I don't understand what is a reason of the wars except people's greedy and dumbiness, it's 21st century, but people act like they are...
  7. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    Most people first check how many they should put stamps and only then send a card, not via versa.
  8. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    I hope you can do it. Good luck. I wish I could tell you smth inspiring... I still have some hope, but less and less, all I can think of now is jumpig in a despair and pulling out my grey hair. I'm afraid that now my life is only going to be worse and worse. I feel like my character went all...
  9. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    All these social programms for people under 36yo... making me mad, like a reminder "don't forget, you are beyond the life, you are not welcome here anymore"...
  10. 4No1

    A guy....is it my fault? Did he display huge red flags??

    I think it's quite fair to stop any contacts when you realized your goals are different. Maybe he hoped something more than a friendship is possible, then he realized, it is not so stopped it all. Before it went too far wrong, not the worst way. Also, I dunno but I really wouldn't upset if some...
  11. 4No1

    Are you a loser?

    I am. I feel like I've lost my own planet/world and can't naturalize in this one. No, not at all. The devil is in the details middle. But I think, both are more a state of a soul than anything else.
  12. 4No1

    78-year old man marries 18-year-old girl

    I do) It's written "after 3 years of dating", I think that in the most countries "dating" 15you when you are 70+ is under the law. And I think it's for a reason. I've checked in Philippines they used to have the age of consent 12 yo(and 12 sounds for me like an official legalization of sexual...
  13. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    I've read about the home doves a bit. Taking the doves for hundreds miles away from their home just to check if they can return(in case there are "racing")... Not leting the young ones to learn how to get food on their own so the adult birds know the only way to get food is to get home. From...
  14. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    I'm not sure it;s a right topic but I don't want to make a new one just for the few posts. And I'm definitely am thinking about it right now. And I need to vent it. Or maybe someone can give me any advise. Why this damned bird came here? Why did it choose my window? There are 24 flats in this...
  15. 4No1

    I Hate When People Say...

    Advising the things that you need money and time for. And advising in a way like it's only my wish pretending me from doing it. Sure it's better to be healthy and wealthy than poor and ill. "You just need to do exercise/go to gym/ walk 8km every day". Yesterday I was advised to take a course...
  16. 4No1

    Your personal opinions?

    I define "friendship" as a close relationship without sexual tension
  17. 4No1

    Your personal opinions?

    Well, that makes things more complicated. Idk, I've heared there can be some issues with the support groups, probably, maybe it's better anyway not to get in a relationshop right now, and in this case I would keep it as it is till you or she can leave the group (and I don't suggest cut off the...
  18. 4No1

    Your personal opinions?

    If they are not attractive to each other, why not? Being freinds with someone married can be more difficult...
  19. 4No1

    Your personal opinions?

    If I had no feelings, I would try to avoid the further contacts with that friend. It would be better for everyone. Are you sure, that deep inside you really don't want anything more? If you do want, you will keep hoping for it and it will lead you nowhere. So I would tell as it is and if she...
  20. 4No1

    What are you thinking right now?

    Yeap, but I'm worried myself, so it's a bit complicated. I probably have some problems with loving myself and really worried she can be like me. Thank you ) The doctors see no problem, they usually don't care about other children in a school. Her physical activity is also normal. Thank you. At...
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