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I don't know the guy personally, it is just from hearsay, but it feels to me like a form of blackmail. As in "you let me have my way or you can take care of the baby yourself." Of course, Belgium has laws that would force him to financially assist, but still, I assume she still loves him, and...

I have my own fetishes, and those are definitely not in a position where I would be the dominant partner, on the contrary. As I don't have that much self-confidence, according to your theory, I would want to dominate a woman instead, controlling her. So how do you explain that, then? Personally...

The problem I have with therapy in the case described is that it makes it seem like he is the one doing something wrong. If everything is as he describes, the problem lies with society. The only thing therapy could do then is to make you come to terms with it, and either get filthy rich so that...

I think it's always been like that. Either you are physically attractive as a man, and that might easily get you lots of one night stands, maybe even a serious relationship. But then women often choose a less attractive man if he has more money, more wealth to display. I've hated this all my...

I think you need to read my last message before this one. Apparently most of what I thought were abnormal results turned out not to be that bad. I don't know, I would like to travel for example, but doing that on my own, doesn't work for me. Sure, I could move to a bigger place, buy myself a...

After that blood test, I went to see the GP, she said my interpretation of those results was wrong. 1. Yes, my cholesterol is too high, but it is not yet high enough to take medication 2. Another fat-related value was too high, but this was unreliable, as I had eaten a couple of hours before the...

When I think about the relations I have had, few of them, the women were sincere. For me sincere means that they are into me, either for lust or for love (or both). For me it doesn't have to be true love to be sincere, as long as they want me, and not something I own or that they can get through...

I don't exercise a lot these days, I used to at the beginning of the school year, at least I used my bike to get to school, so that was at least 2 times 15 minutes per day. I've started to use it more often lately. I have done so, but I quickly concluded that those healthy products are hard to...

That's where you make assumptions, you just assume I'm on a very unhealthy diet, and I mostly eat hamburgers and fries. I don't. I cook myself most of the times. I put salmon, leek and potatoes together in a steaming basket, so I don't have to use any butter or olive oil. I eat fish twice a week...

I'm going to the GP tomorrow, and this time I won't eat or drink anything, so hopefully they will do another test. I need to make sure they didn't make a mistake, because I find it strange that so many parameters are bad. I'm not surprised about cholesterol for example, but it surprises me that...

So, I'm 55 now, I'm not married and I don't have children. I lost my job in IT, and I am trying to become a teacher of Dutch, my mother tongue and that of 60% of the Belgians. The studies are going well, every exam I did went fine, as well as the internship. However, on a social level I am...

I recently turned 55. I feel like if a woman is into me, I will probably not find her attractive. At the same time I feel lonely. I think I would feel better, even if I had a purely sexual relationship with a woman, as long as I know she's not there for ulterior motives (money, visa, etc.). At...

I wasn't talking about who pays on a first date, that is something different. I'm talking about selecting a partner based on his or her wealth. If I'm selected that way, I will feel exploited, especially if the woman has her own income. I don't know what you mean by "working class". "Working...

Well, it's hard to fall in love with someone who's in the gutter, that is true, but between that and looking for the one with the biggest wallet there is a big distinction. Those are gold diggers, and chances are that the moment they think they have an opportunity for a man with a bigger wallet...

I could never love a woman who loves me for my wallet, I think it's just a sort of prostitution, though it's not called that way. And no, it's not as shallow to want someone for their looks, because these are a part of that person, your wallet can get stolen from one moment to another. So no, I...

I don't know, it's easy to think that one's own personal experience is how the majority feels, and it seems that investigations confirm my point of view...

I think your idea that it would not be limited to a certain age, is what is excentric. Can you imagine being 20 and being attracted to a 90 year old? Do you think women don't have any preferences as to age? I think most people are attracted to a certain age range, and it is ideal if that...

That is a strange way of reasoning, as if as a human being you can decide for yourself who you are attracted to. I also hate the idea that a man somehow has to have a bag of money to "compensate" for being with an attractive woman. It creates the idea that somehow having *** is a sacrifice for...

So for you their physical appearance does not matter? For me it does, most of women my age don't look attractive to me. I'm not looking for a woman to serve me, women can have their own opinion for me, they can go out to work, etc.

I understand, but I gave the example of the women I met at a speed dating event. These were women I immediately saw in the flesh, I was not attracted to them, and apparently none of them felt even an urge to have a second conversation with me.