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I don't think I'm getting out of this with my sanity! Neither here nor there and no matter what I do she won't change. I'm a doormat. Worse because it's an ex. Sometimes I can really hate myself for this **** going on!

Is if isn't on looks initially that makes you give a guy a chance then what can it be? Surely that first meeting, the first minute that u see the person you've probably already decided if your gonna give him a chance just purely on how he looks, carries himself. I'm not saying it's always down...

I actually agree with what your saying but it's not always about looks. It about bluffing the high confidence thing that makes a lot if guys seems more attractive than they are. I'm a guy with low confidence and I've seen guys who ain't no adonis but the bluffed confidence and women live the...

I agree, its about accepting what is and ignoring what isnt. I totally believe if you can find some self worth and just be proud of who you are then that confidence will make you feel that little bit more attractive to yourself. I'd say who frickin cares what other people think and if its...

It's not positive bs. I'm confused to who actually told u that u are unattractive? I understand you might not look like Cindy Crawford or one of they horrid Kardasins or whatever they're called but you can't be that bad ffs are u a cyclops or have u got 2 noses or something bad or is it that...

Who told you you that you are unattractive? Tell them to go **** themselves. Just own it! Be proud of who you are and everyone else can **** off! Your not unattractive and I haven't seen you. I just know! Don't be so frickin hard on yourself.

Yeah, the one and only ******** that is called Paisley. I have good days and bad and just gotta keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep going. Thanks for responding.

I think if we weren't at the beginning of winter which is just rain, rain and more rain with some really cold days thrown in then i'd just pack up my rucksack and get tae **** for as long as i could handle it! Just to pack up and get tae ****! Tell nobody, take what i need and just bolt! Just to...

There's so much I'd like to chat to u about but I just saw your post as I was getting ready to go sleep. Can I just say...please don't check out just now! Sometimes the world/fate/god/whatever decides it times for you to have some good **** happen and it might not happen today, tomorrow or the...

You don't owe me an apology bud. I was being ignorant. My apologies. I'm pretty sure you don't speak gibberish and if you do then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that if it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone. Stay cool 😎

Sounds like a real bummer!

Seemed like gibberish but that might be my shrooms kicking!

Sitting on a Monday night and pretty much bored oot ma *******! (Oot ma *******) is a Scottish slang term and I'm actually a guy that doesn't have *******. Anyway, does anyone have a funny story to tell?

Defo, it's really good to just write out all your frustrations for the day/week/month and just get it out there and if people give advice that's good then bonus but if anything just getting it out there is good advice. Venting us good! 👍😊😊👍

Your completely right. I'm a total over thinker. I'm like Dr Strange sitting looking at the 28 million possible outcomes and looking for the one I win and its always bad I'm afraid. The woman clicks before I can say anything🤣 hope to god u get the movie reference!! Lol

It's the truth and sometimes it hurts🤣

This isn't a woman problem, this is a me problem and I've really struggled. Maybe if I'm in a situation that I could make the first move then maybe. It's a crap time to be plagued by anxiety when just about to make a move. Makes me look desperate and I usually am🤣 honestly though I understand...

It's completely fine online, I can be myself. I'm a very chatty person but and I'd say quite witty and can even be like that with women in my company but as soon as the thought of "chatting anyone up" then I'm fuct! I'm just a contradiction. When you know me then you can't usually shut me up snd...

I really wish it was that easy for me. Me going upto a woman and making "first contact" petrified me then the rejection bit that I'll know will probably come takes over and I just don't do it. I'm 48 yo and still can't pluck up the courage to actually go up and just talk to a woman. Sadly though...

I'd much rather take advice from a woman anyday of the week. Even a guy who's a "player" would be low down on my list of people to take advice from about women. Obviously every woman is different but defo taking advice from a woman about what not to do rather than what to do. My problem is that...