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may as well ask a starving person in a third world country what their favorite food is. such a question is only relevant if one is actually capable of achieving what would make them happy. the foundation of true happiness are relationships so those of us forced out of the relationship pool are...

correct-the problem comes in when one knows exactly what will make them happy but is utterly unable to experience it due to factors entirely beyond their control. it is the fallacious belief that everyone is able to attain what will make them happy which is the source of great frustration...

i would like to offer a suggestion which you may find upleasant.  there is a very good chance that your failure at creating the life experience you so greatly desire is due to a lack of genetic quality.  perhaps your genetics are not at a level sufficent to make the women you are interested in...

i was not being insulting by the triggering comment so apolgize if you were offended by it. everyone does have their own preferences but when it comes to women, their preferences are in such a narrow band that only the top 20% or so of men fall into their field of interest. even if one denies...

mediatation can be a decent distraction for some but is not the answer for everyone.  without emotions there is not much point to living.  it is the fact that we are forced to experience so many negative emotions because of our inferior physical traits that is the root of the issue.

correct-i was married for many years to my one and only partner so in my case lack of previous experience is not applicable. as far as nevada- i stated previously that having to spend thousands of dollars and travel across the country to pay for the delusion of a women caring about me would do...

ska & ardour are 100% correct. paying for *** is only going to make things far worse for inferior males who are not good enough to have a female genuinely attracted to us. not only is it dangerous and expensive but it is also illegal in the US so you risk prosecution including perhaps losing...

my only purpose is to expose the harsh truth and as i posted below, all of the references are linked in the video on youtube. i have yet to see a peer reviewed paper which concluded that a man's height & facial attractiveness are not of primary importance for women but if you know of any please...

i understand how looking at such uncomfortable truths can be so triggering but if you look at the video on youtube, all of the papers are linked under the heading "sources".  here is the paper which was used for the male height graph...

yet more evidence of why many men are even more doomed than they may be aware of when it comes to dating & relationships. even more brutal is that he used my height as an example showing that 95% of women will reject a 5'6 male based only on his lack of height alone. "The things brought up in...

2 at best-on a good day

similarly, your issues do not affect me or anyone else here at all either.  by your measure i guess anyone who posts here about their problems (which i thought was the whole point of this forum) is also trying to pull others into a "pity party"-though this is never brought up when someone...

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believe me-you did not miss much at all

precisely. i don't know how any adult can be in denial of this-especially those who are fortuante enough to be in a relationship themselves. romantic connect is a basic human need starting at puberty & ending at death.  denial of this is almost as bad as those who are so convinced that these...

i agree it's rare but i personally know a few LT couples who both say that their partner is the best thing to ever happen to them. if being single is so great then why is just about everyone either in or seeking a relationship? anyone can choose to be single at anytime (though it may be more...

i agree 100% that being single is far better than being in a bad relationship.  however, being in a healthy, supportive partnership based on mutual attraction is far superior to being single, alone & unwanted.

thanks FB.  sadly, i have put in the work for many years with zero to show for it-not even a single date in 8+ years. in my case, things are never going to improve unless very short, bald, below average looking older men somehow become attractive to women.  sometimes giving up is the only...

getting old alone is what really sucks.  everything in life is far better when there is someone to share it with and becomes hollow & meaningless knowing that it's extremely likely you are not good enough to experience romantic connection.

if you don't have any issues attracting women then you are very fortunate to have the genetics to eventually find a suitable partner. your situation is one in which effort and hard work can actually pay off so best of luck to you in this endevour. having options but not finding any of them...