To recap: Had a second date with this woman, it wasn't great. She was grumpy, upset and in a bad mood. She started crying at one point. When I got home, I had a phone call from her next door neighbour (a woman I've known for over 10 years.) - She told me that I'm a nice guy and I should know that this woman is seeing another bloke. She went to his place for a weekend and slept with him. These 2 women have had a fall out over this.
A few days later to my surprize I get a text from her and she asks me out for this Friday. I said 'yes' - thought 'why not ?'
Throughout the week, I don't hear much from her. I do notice though she is spending alot of time on facebook. (She's going on facebook when she's getting in from work etc. She has very few friends on there, the guy she slept with is one of them.) - all of this made me think that our date wouldn't happen and she would probably go off with the other guy.
Got a message from her today on facebook, date is off, she has to goto the doctors. I wasn't surprized and she came across just the same: she was moaning and complaining about evertything. It's becoming boring and tiresome.
So that's her and as the days go by the less bothered I am.
This other woman: I was in love with her, now not so much. She's got this fella and is living with him. We've kept in touch over the year (We used to work together !) - met her last week for a coffee; her idea.
Anyway found out last week that my big, fat, pig of a boss was screwing her. He's married by the way. There was lots of rumours at work. I always thought 'surely not !' - but apparantly it was true - he was spotted visiting her house during the day when he was supposed to be at work. All I'm thinking is 'what a **** !' - I don't want anything to do with her to be honest but she has been sending quite alot of texts just recently.
So in the end both stories are the same really. The other guy is screwing her while I'm the 'friend' or the 'shoulder to cry on'
A third woman - everybody at work seems to want me to ask her out. I did and she never got back to me. I do have her mobile number and we exchange texts every now and again. I walked her home last Saturday after this works party. She chatted but never once suggested meeting up.
A few days later to my surprize I get a text from her and she asks me out for this Friday. I said 'yes' - thought 'why not ?'
Throughout the week, I don't hear much from her. I do notice though she is spending alot of time on facebook. (She's going on facebook when she's getting in from work etc. She has very few friends on there, the guy she slept with is one of them.) - all of this made me think that our date wouldn't happen and she would probably go off with the other guy.
Got a message from her today on facebook, date is off, she has to goto the doctors. I wasn't surprized and she came across just the same: she was moaning and complaining about evertything. It's becoming boring and tiresome.
So that's her and as the days go by the less bothered I am.
This other woman: I was in love with her, now not so much. She's got this fella and is living with him. We've kept in touch over the year (We used to work together !) - met her last week for a coffee; her idea.
Anyway found out last week that my big, fat, pig of a boss was screwing her. He's married by the way. There was lots of rumours at work. I always thought 'surely not !' - but apparantly it was true - he was spotted visiting her house during the day when he was supposed to be at work. All I'm thinking is 'what a **** !' - I don't want anything to do with her to be honest but she has been sending quite alot of texts just recently.
So in the end both stories are the same really. The other guy is screwing her while I'm the 'friend' or the 'shoulder to cry on'
A third woman - everybody at work seems to want me to ask her out. I did and she never got back to me. I do have her mobile number and we exchange texts every now and again. I walked her home last Saturday after this works party. She chatted but never once suggested meeting up.
