bad vibes again :/

[floffyschneeman]

Could it be that myself is sabotaging my chances for real friendships? Somehow I do feel that way. Every time I meet new people whether online or in real life, there is this feeling from bad thoughts that people get annoyed of me. Then I become awkward towards them. It's all in my mind and regardless of the possibility that a person really gets annoyed by me, I can't do anything about it except live my life not minding what that person thinks. I hate that I'm too fragile, I need cement as a face.

 

[Badjedidude]

Ehhh don't worry about it so much. Just do your best to be you and surround yourself with people who know you, and you'll be alright.

 

[Dessa]

Floffy I am not and will probably never be annoyed by you. With that said yeah I feel that way, too, sometimes. We have each other! lol PM me whenever you feel that way. Mkay!

 

[floffyschneeman]

Ehhh don't worry about it so much. Just do your best to be you and surround yourself with people who know you, and you'll be alright.

yes I know you are right. sometimes I just have to tell myself that again and again. thanks BJD

Floffy I am not and will probably never be annoyed by you. With that said yeah I feel that way, too, sometimes. We have each other! lol PM me whenever you feel that way. Mkay!

YEY hugs Odessa! you're awesome. and I will sure do. enjoy your day aight

 

[Sean]

I have the exact same problem . . .
:/


here's my thread about it lol : http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=12406

 

[floffyschneeman]

I have the exact same problem . . .
:/


here's my thread about it lol : http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=12406

I can really relate to that, and to be honest, i think I also messed up a friendship because of always asking if he was mad at me or anything. I don't want to sound all paranoid, But sadly I am. I guess, I don't think people likes me cos I party don't like myself either

 

[SophiaGrace]

Do you think you're projecting your self-hate onto others, resulting in you THINKING they're annoyed with you, because, well, you hate yourself, so why shouldnt they?

 

[Sci-Fi]

I haven't found you annoying on the forums, so stop being so paranoid! Cement is not good for your skin, it dries and becomes concrete, then you'll have a concrete face that's gray, cold, emotionless, and that's no fun. Faces are meant to be expressive, emotional, and warm! Let your face shine and don't forget to moisturize.

 

[Joseph]

Actually, cement only becomes concrete once you add aggregate and water.

 

[floffyschneeman]

Do you think you're projecting your self-hate onto others, resulting in you THINKING they're annoyed with you, because, well, you hate yourself, so why shouldnt they?

I am not sure, but I think that may be one of the reasons. I have a love and hate relationship with myself. I have gotten over it though, or so I thought. it comes in goes, for all that's worth, I know I am the only person I can depend on when all things fail. It is a must to be comfortable with one's self. that I am working on

I haven't found you annoying on the forums, so stop being so paranoid! Cement is not good for your skin, it dries and becomes concrete, then you'll have a concrete face that's gray, cold, emotionless, and that's no fun. Faces are meant to be expressive, emotional, and warm! Let your face shine and don't forget to moisturize.

I am not forgetting my gurly rituals, no worries. thanks sci-fi you sure cheered me up

 

[VanillaCreme]

I sort of know how you feel. For me, I hate bothering people, so I tend not to talk to them. But what I realized is, when I'm cool, they're cool. If I don't make a deal or problem out of it, it won't become one. Just relax. If someone had a real issue with you, they would either tell you or they wouldn't bother with you.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I haven't found you annoying on the forums, so stop being so paranoid! Cement is not good for your skin, it dries and becomes concrete, then you'll have a concrete face that's gray, cold, emotionless, and that's no fun. Faces are meant to be expressive, emotional, and warm! Let your face shine and don't forget to moisturize.

This response was awesome it made me smile.

 

[ThatOneDude]

Aww, come on! You're cool floffy! Even if you are secretly a guy, just being yourself to get friends is actually a viable solution for you! Don't let bad vibes get you down

 

[Ladysphinx]

I second the other. It's always great to see you around in ALL

 

[MDxUK]

Could it be that myself is sabotaging my chances for real friendships? Somehow I do feel that way. Every time I meet new people whether online or in real life, there is this feeling from bad thoughts that people get annoyed of me. Then I become awkward towards them. It's all in my mind and regardless of the possibility that a person really gets annoyed by me, I can't do anything about it except live my life not minding what that person thinks. I hate that I'm too fragile, I need cement as a face.

Yeah it's all in your mind, your being paranoid. forget trying to read peoples minds because you cant. talk before you think.

 

[floffyschneeman]

talk before you think.

I think this will get me in so much trouble.

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^It works for me somehow. lulz

 

[floffyschneeman]

^^^It works for me somehow. lulz

It's easy for you, you're badjedidude. but this may work for me, just gotta practice on my running skill. lol

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^Well hey, then you'll end up being in shape and healthy from all the running!

So it's win-win!

 

[floffyschneeman]

hahaha, I guess you are right. ^^