Beautiful Girls Are Not *******

[SophiaGrace]

There seems to be this prevailing notion that beautiful women are stuck up *******. I'm here to say this isn't true. There is also the notion that because of their beauty they have no depth because they can go places because of their feminine wiles.

Beautiful people have people judging them solely on appearance. This is a blanket occurance, which deindividuates all beautiful women out there and when you deinidividuate, it is a micro-aggression. A micro aggression is when your discrimination is not readily apparent, it is more subtle. It's what racism has been reduced to in our society. So, we devalue who beautiful people are inside. Their individualness by saying all beautiful people are _______.

Furthermore, in terms of character, we can never know what a seemingly beautiful person has been through. These things, these experiences, do, in fact, build character. I have met beautiful people who have gone through hell and they are some of the kindest most wise, most self sacrificing people I've ever met. One of these people is my mother and she's not beautiful because I can't be objective although she is beautiful in that sense as well (in the subjective sense). She was in the miss america pagent.

In closing remarks I will leave you with this. Beautiful people are themselves and nothing else. They are not your preconcieved notions or expectations.

 

[Limlim]

yeah only ugly people are *******!

.... lol sorry couldn't resist.

 

[Barbaloot]

This is often true. Especially AJ - beautiful and probably the nicest person ever. And she's single, ladies.

 

[The Good Citizen]

yeah only ugly people are *******!

.... lol sorry couldn't resist.

Ha ha!

In all serious though, isn't it all a little tiring? Beautiful people, good luck to them, it's one of the many social advantages they have ticked, amongst the millions of other little problems this life throws at us. *raises a toast to all the beautiful people*.

 

[theraab]

*raises a toast to all the beautiful people*.

Thank you Good Citizen, thank you.

 

[Tealeaf]

We always find reasons to draw imaginary lines between people.

 

[perfanoff]

Sure.
That "attractive girls are *******" perception comes mostly from guys who get rejected by these pretty women.. it's a coping mechanism to make themselves feel better.

Other than that there are the notorious female users, these girls that flirt like crazy with you until they get what they can from you. As in material help or other assistance. Unattractive girls cannot really get away with that trick. That could be one of the reasons,

 

[Drew88]

Again it falls on me as to why these people want nothing to do with me.

 

[kamya]

This thread should have been titled "Not all X are Y". You could literally substitute any group of people for X, and any personality type for Y in there.

Good post though dood.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I don't believe beautiful women are *******.

I do think that beautiful women have the world handed to them, for the most part. But that, in itself, doesn't make them terrible people. There are enough unattractive people out there who are nasty, insensitive people, that I can't really state that beautiful women are generally insensitive because of their personalities.

And I've known a lot of beautiful women who are also beautiful on the inside, as well.

 

[perfanoff]

Let's also add that being beautiful does not come without effort in the modern age.
Handsome guys are by definition well-groomed. And women.. a lot of women spend some good time and money on their appearance.

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Depends on what you mean by Handsome? Face, or body? Or both?

I know I don't have that great of a body, but I think I do all right in the facial department.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I have 4 daughter in thier 20's. For the most part they're deem lookers and eye canny to most men.
Of corse they have no shortage of young men chasing after them.

Not all men are nice to my daughters thats for sure,They just wanna use my girls...**** them ect.
So my girls might act like ******* around certain men...becuase everyone of my daughters have
been hurted very very bad by men. Its self protection.

Kimi and Kelsie...My 2 youngest had been treated very very bad.
They been bullied and picked on even when they were kids.
The ironic twist is they both fit the profile of a super model. Kimi is a model.

You wouldnt know just by looking at them. You wonldnt know about some of the crazy
**** they lived through and had to endured. You wouldnt know how many tears they cried and pains
they lived through.

My girls are very soft, kind, loving, caring people.
Especailly Kimi...she's very soft spoken.
As she learne more and more to stand up for herself..it's a challenge for her to be a major bitch to certain people.
Kimi also suffers from depression.
She's also going through more medical condition challenges.
Its in her DNA...She might have MS. It runs in my family.
It skipped me...but I might had pass it on to her. It's not her fault.
She's in a lot of physical pains....
Most people just wanna see her pretty face, body, smile and sunshine shooting out of her ass....

Kelsie on the other hand has a more rough on the edges personality around men.
She's been hurted and abused very bad by men.
So she's not afraid to be blunt or straight up even if she migh come off looking like a major bitch.

You must understand...when my daughters talk to me....they're still my little girls.
They're well behaved or the little girl part of them comes out...no matter how old they are.

Anyway..Ive been with pretty women all my life.
Obvously they wernt ******* towards me...not unless I gave them reasons.

Ive also been rejected by plenty of pretty women...
The ironic twist of it..Ive been rejected by not so pretty women than the pretty ones.

Im currently in a relationship with Kimi's mom...(Renae)
Obviously Renae is pretty. Kimi looks almost like her mother at times.
She's not perfect. She can be a major bitch towards me becuase sometimes she's very angery at me.
Other times...life is just too much for her...everyonce in a while she'll go into the she dont give a **** mode.
She can get very self fish and inconsiderate....
More ofthen than not...she's very loving, kind, and caring.
She loves me very much. i hurted Renae very much in the past.
She can be a very forgiving person. She tolerates alot of my flaws and imperfections as a person too.

 

[Phaedron]

The stereotype is often about elitism. Its this highschool mentality about the pretty popular in-crowd. Some think a beautiful woman is intimidating, or more then they deserve, or more likely to hurt them, or to decide they could easily get someone better. Its easy to assume the worst about someone before you know them.

Theres no shortcut. If you think you can avoid that situation by dating someone heavy or less desirable, think again. The less desirable can be just as bad, even worse. Take the persons character into account; whether its a beautiful woman or a handsome successful man, or whatever.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Let's also add that being beautiful does not come without effort in the modern age.
Handsome guys are by definition well-groomed. And women.. a lot of women spend some good time and money on their appearance.

Yup.

I actually always think that beauty should be admired, in a way, because it is the result of laborious effect.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

if you're gonna judge a woman/men on her/his personality (no matter her looks , religion, creed, ...ect)
you're in for big surprize or/and lack relationship or dating experinces.
Personalities fluxuate just the same as looks.....

1, during dating or courting stages...most people are gonna be on thier best behaviors.
Therefore not really showing thier true complete self. Thats why all that romance crap
wears off within the first 90 days. Men sometimes stop the courting/chasing after they think
he have the women. Women complain that men arnt romantic as they use to be when they
first met. Hence she feels he's a ******** to her.

2, People change and evolve...Sometimes for the better. Other times for the worst.
None of us truely ever stay the same.

3, You never had to make a tampon run for your woman before. You had nevered lived
with the REDHEADED MONSTER montly visit. Some women will simply turn into major
******* becuase her body chemistry. There's nothing you can say or do to make her feel better.
Everything you say or dont say, do or dont do will simply be wrong to her. And she's definetly
aint gonna be so loving and sweet experincing cramps 24/7 for a week. And **** all the hugs and kisses.
She simply dont wanna be touched. She's irrable at everything.
She's totally overwhelm and blinded by her emotions and wanna keep her hands on the steering wheel to
the relationship during those times too.lol

4, You lack experincing waking up in the morning with a woman consistantly or having wild sex with a woman....no matter how hot you deem she is.
Her hair is all ****** up. Her make up is running. Sometimes she'll even have bad breathe and she's not always smelling so good.
She'll fart,****, brup and snores just like any human being. You had never had to work on plumbing before. You had never had
to unclocgg the drain or toilet for her before. You had never had to clean up her vommit before. You had never woke up becuase she pee in bed before.
You had never done her luandry for her before. You had never clean/paint her nails for her before. You had never shave her entire body before...cuase she's not always clean shaven.She has a mustachans whiskers too. More often than not her legs and arm pits has stubby hair becuase she simply dosnt shave everyday.
She has moles, birth marks, scars and frekles in various places of her body. She has strecth marks or winkgles in various places of her body.

She can be super hot and sexy...

On a good day...she can be a major freaken dork..lol I love her so....

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Personality is completely seperate from physical attractiveness, this is true.

There are some handsome guys/pretty girls out there that are really lovely people too. There are also some good looking people who are just ugly on the inside.

It's that old saying: "Never judge a book by it's cover."

Frankly, I think looks aren't too important. I believe anyone has the potential to be physically attractive. Attractive traits are simply popular ideals bestowed on physical form by society - they shift and change with time, and are largely malleable.

It's excellent practice to maintain physical fitness and keep yourself well groomed (even if only for the self-esteem boost), but ultimately it's your ethics and willingness to treat others well that is the measure of a person, not your waist size or the angle of your jaw.

 

[The Good Citizen]

I disagree, I think if someone has a great personality and a natural smile it comes shining through and can add loads to their physical attractiveness. It does make a big difference, looks and personality are closely linked and go together to give you an overall picture and that picture is what you're attracted to.

 

[WallflowerGirl83]

I've had this problem and still do. I'm actually pretty caring but most guys only see one thing. But I want more. I want friendship. Love. Laughter. I love a person for who they are in the inside. You have to have that connection. But I realized lots of beautiful woman go for shallow men. I did in the past but I realized my mistake and turned my life around. Cause I believe I'm more than just sex.