Communicating with Girlfriend

[Dear-_-Tragedy]

I haven't spoken to my girlfriend or even seen her for a few days but she rarely texts me or phones me voluntarily. It always seems to be me doing the texting. Basically I don't know what to text her what to say to her to keep in touch. I don't know what we can do together either can I have some advice?

 

[Parabolani]

You need to ask her if it's over, don't let it drag out.

 

[Dear-_-Tragedy]

why would it be over? I just haven't spoken to her for a few days that's all I just need to know what to say to her I lack communication skills as does she.

 

[VanillaCreme]

why would it be over? I just haven't spoken to her for a few days that's all I just need to know what to say to her I lack communication skills as does she.

Because usually when one person doesn't talk to the other, it sometimes means that. I'm not saying that's the case for you. But it happens.

 

[Dear-_-Tragedy]

I don't know what to say to her and she is either not thinking about me or doesn't know what to say to me either

 

[Tiina63]

Do you think that maybe you are not right for each other as you are both finding it hard to communicate with each other? Or have you not known each other for very long yet?

 

[Okiedokes]

Is she really busy lately? Maybe she wants some more space for whatever reason. I'd just be straight up and ask her what's been going on and you just wondered if something was wrong. Let her text you back if she says nothings wrong so she will have her space for a bit.

 

[Parabolani]

I would say "we haven't talked much lately, is everything still cool with us"

 

[lonelyfairy]

I think you should just try to talk to her about what is bothering you.

 

[Astral_Punisher]

Honestly is very useful in situations like this (and nearly all other situations too!).

Write down what you want to say, in a sentence or two, and ask her, point blank.

"We haven't talked, and I'm starting to feel like there is something up."
"Do you want to meet in person/chat about anything?"
"Has something changed between us?"