I've been brought up with a belief that respect is earned, not given automatically & that was thought to me by my mom... Take it as what it is... There is, however, fine line between respect & common courtesy... I wouldn't go out of my ways to be rude but that's with people in general, not specific to any gender... As far as sex goes, or one night stands, I believe it has to do with mutual understanding... It takes 2 to tango, as they say... On the flip side of the story, I don't see it as a girl not having a healthy respect for the male gender just because she's willing to have an one night stand... It's a personal choice... Some people don't agree with it, some do... If both participants are willing, I don't see it as a respect issue, especially gender related... It just might be a "wording" issue but I just have a hard time respecting somebody I don't know... It just feels too much like racism or stereo-typing... Whole idea behind the two is making up an opinion solely based on specific race... Well, in this case, specific gender... So I guess I should say it feels more like sexism... "Why should I respect someone solely because she belongs to a gender group" type of an idea... Like I said, I do believe in general common courtesy... But the person has to earn it if she wants my respect...