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Callie said:
Yes, no one gets why you go on and on about your life when it has NOTHING to do with the topic

It's called disconnected, misdirected babble.

Plain and simple.
 
^^^Don't be sorry for finding joy in this life.

See, I have experience. REAL experence with wamen
Bithces, ladies always finding me horny...
Never find me lacking any love, three women at one.

My ex girlfren always wanted me...
but sometimes just had to say...
Stepp off woman I'm tired long day at work
LONG day of WERK...
But she wont give up if you know what I mean
Women always finding time for it

Just gotta face tomarow with eyes open
watch for pottholes...
Drive carefully on the road.
And sex.
 
Callie said:
Badjedidude said:
ohmygod lol who the **** is he even talking to...

Himself, of course, who the hell else does he talk to?

Absolutely no one. I doubt many people even pay him much mind anymore. He just derails threads anymore. None of his posts have anything to do with the topic at hand.

And Jedi, you funny man. Oh gosh, that made me giggle.
 
unlucky in life said:
how does losing weight make people like me because i have been never slim.does it help


On a very basic level, losing weight can help because it can be the first step to us feeling better about ourselves, and THAT is something that glows from the inside and acts as a "natural prettiness enhancer."

I'm not bullshitting you, it can have that effect.

Also, it can have a positive effect on our behavior because it is evidence that we can make positive changes in our lives and accomplish things.

Never underestimate the power of accomplishment on self-esteem.
 
I'm a firm believer that if you work hard at teaching yourself to dress well and keep fit it has a whole lot more benefits than just visual appeal, it proves you aren't lazy and have willpower.

Good looks don't come from natural beauty for the majority of people, and there is much disagreement about taste anyway. Just make the most out of your body type by regularly hitting the gym, and experiment with buying clothes from nicer shops that suit you.

I've been fat and very self conscious about looks for years, but since i've been doing these things people have complimented me and i've been getting more attention from the opposite sex. It helps boost your ego, which I think we all need a little bit of (but not too much).
 
Haz said:
I'm a firm believer that if you work hard at teaching yourself to dress well and keep fit it has a whole lot more benefits than just visual appeal, it proves you aren't lazy and have willpower.

Good looks don't come from natural beauty for the majority of people, and there is much disagreement about taste anyway. Just make the most out of your body type by regularly hitting the gym, and experiment with buying clothes from nicer shops that suit you.

I've been fat and very self conscious about looks for years, but since i've been doing these things people have complimented me and i've been getting more attention from the opposite sex. It helps boost your ego, which I think we all need a little bit of (but not too much).

does it really help i really don't know.but i am quiet and shy due to 18 years of cold heartless rejection one guy called old cougar.he truly hates
because i am told him i was unattractive looking and heavy and short in height he said he didn't want to know me blocked me he said horrible things to me too.a cougar make me feel old like old fat desperate woman chasing younger guy he put in that way.i know i am ugly looking even if i lost weight i stll be ugly looking i hate mirrors and i hate my reflection on shiny surfaces.i hate my photo be taken i absolutely hate it.i really hate my ugly face .i know i am ugly looking i have been told it too.

girl at school when i was younger said to me and she was right too
"what guy in right mind would any thing to do with you" she was right none
 
There is more to life than human companionship. You, my dear, must learn to take pleasure in those things. Even if you DID find somebody to love you, you wouldn't love him back.
 
unlucky in life said:
does it really help i really don't know.but i am quiet and shy due to 18 years of cold heartless rejection one guy called old cougar.he truly hates
because i am told him i was unattractive looking and heavy and short in height he said he didn't want to know me blocked me he said horrible things to me too.a cougar make me feel old like old fat desperate woman chasing younger guy he put in that way.i know i am ugly looking even if i lost weight i stll be ugly looking i hate mirrors and i hate my reflection on shiny surfaces.i hate my photo be taken i absolutely hate it.i really hate my ugly face .i know i am ugly looking i have been told it too.

girl at school when i was younger said to me and she was right too
"what guy in right mind would any thing to do with you" she was right none

You have an issue with believing things people tell you. What other people say can't harm or hurt you unless YOU LET THEM. There's a saying that goes "What other people think of you is none of your business." You should think about that and find a way to boost your self confidence. You saying that you basically hate yourself isn't doing you any favors and will only make you worse. And stop going on and on about facebook guy, that's over and done with, let it go.
 
unlucky in life said:
Haz said:
I'm a firm believer that if you work hard at teaching yourself to dress well and keep fit it has a whole lot more benefits than just visual appeal, it proves you aren't lazy and have willpower.

Good looks don't come from natural beauty for the majority of people, and there is much disagreement about taste anyway. Just make the most out of your body type by regularly hitting the gym, and experiment with buying clothes from nicer shops that suit you.

I've been fat and very self conscious about looks for years, but since i've been doing these things people have complimented me and i've been getting more attention from the opposite sex. It helps boost your ego, which I think we all need a little bit of (but not too much).

does it really help i really don't know.but i am quiet and shy due to 18 years of cold heartless rejection one guy called old cougar.he truly hates
because i am told him i was unattractive looking and heavy and short in height he said he didn't want to know me blocked me he said horrible things to me too.a cougar make me feel old like old fat desperate woman chasing younger guy he put in that way.i know i am ugly looking even if i lost weight i stll be ugly looking i hate mirrors and i hate my reflection on shiny surfaces.i hate my photo be taken i absolutely hate it.i really hate my ugly face .i know i am ugly looking i have been told it too.

girl at school when i was younger said to me and she was right too
"what guy in right mind would any thing to do with you" she was right none

idk but trying anything different is better then banging your head on a wall
 
i am genetics flawed i am not good looking,thin,i am not even tall i am also flat chested with large hips i am out proportional
along side other perfect women who have every thing in right places i have every thing in the wrong places
i miss managed and face my own mother thinks i am ugly looking she said i am only jealous of good looking so i can tell that just tell you
how ugly looking really am
 
unlucky in life said:
i am genetics flawed i am not good looking,thin,i am not even tall i am also flat chested with large hips i am out proportional
along side other perfect women who have every thing in right places i have every thing in the wrong places
i miss managed and face my own mother thinks i am ugly looking she said i am only jealous of good looking so i can tell that just tell you
how ugly looking really am

And you don't listen to any advice anyone gives you....

 
Callie said:
unlucky in life said:
i am genetics flawed i am not good looking,thin,i am not even tall i am also flat chested with large hips i am out proportional
along side other perfect women who have every thing in right places i have every thing in the wrong places
i miss managed and face my own mother thinks i am ugly looking she said i am only jealous of good looking so i can tell that just tell you
how ugly looking really am

And you don't listen to any advice anyone gives you....

but no matter what i look like and my personality i am rejected
born reject.men have naturally hated for me told me so .my own mother said i was ugly looking

 
most guys today think they deserve the best like miss universe of 20 years old not the likes of me i have no change none at all
i can't compete i could never compete with that . what the use i can't win i just can't win
 

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