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Ahhh ****...been feeling down, and I just finished stuffing myself with comfort foods.

Of course, I find comfort in all foods. >.>

Cheese, meat, bread, sweets etc...nothing is left untouched haha.

Now my stomach is sticking out even more than usual and that pisses me off.
 
I don't have a problem with comfort foods....I have a problem with boredom foods. When I'm bored and just screwing around watching TV or cruisin the 'net, I generally always find that somehow some food has worked its way into my hands.

The best thing I can do for myself is to throw it away as soon as I notice that I'm holding it.

----Steve
 
not good
go for the carrots instead, or a big glass of water
i bored eat, but then i realise what im doing, and
go for a run, thank god springs back!
anyways Luna, dont suffer eat k. find another task to do.
_______________________________loves: joe
 
Yea, go for healthy foods. I don't have a problem with eating like that, I tend not to eat for days at a time, which is not any better... But I keep a box of Wheat Thins around. I'm not a health guru or anything, I just like them. Popcorn is good to keep around for snacking too. Broccoli and maybe a bit of dressing, was surprisingly good to me. Never thought I'd like raw broccoli.
 
Badjedidude said:
I don't have a problem with comfort foods....I have a problem with boredom foods. When I'm bored and just screwing around watching TV or cruisin the 'net, I generally always find that somehow some food has worked its way into my hands.

The best thing I can do for myself is to throw it away as soon as I notice that I'm holding it.

----Steve


I'm the same way, I eat way too much when I'm bored. On any other day I wouldn't be able to eat as much as when Im bored, even if I wanted to. Its the strangest damn thing.
 
VanillaCreme said:
Yea, go for healthy foods. I don't have a problem with eating like that, I tend not to eat for days at a time, which is not any better... But I keep a box of Wheat Thins around. I'm not a health guru or anything, I just like them. Popcorn is good to keep around for snacking too. Broccoli and maybe a bit of dressing, was surprisingly good to me. Never thought I'd like raw broccoli.

just broccoli? thats crazy! i gotta try it, with some ranch? could be the
next big thing
 
Yeap, just buy a stalk of fresh broccoli. Wash it, and crunch away. It's refreshing. My mom asked me to buy it once, when she was in a salad fit, and I put smaller bits in her salad. She told me it was good, so I tried it and it was.
 
I like celery too. Not raw though. I tend to like it in soups more.

Oh, Luna, a nice hearty soup is good. And can be good for you. Especially if you make it yourself, so you know exactly what's in it. Fills you up and sticks to your ribs.
 
loketron said:
just broccoli? thats crazy! i gotta try it, with some ranch? could be the
next big thing

There are few things which don't taste better with ranch: red bell pepper strips, cauliflower florets, celery and carrots, cherry tomatoes... I could go on and on.

I also eat all of those with hummus instead of ranch, especially if I'm on a vegan kick.

Luna said:
Ahhh ****...been feeling down, and I just finished stuffing myself with comfort foods.

Of course, I find comfort in all foods. >.>

Cheese, meat, bread, sweets etc...nothing is left untouched haha.

Now my stomach is sticking out even more than usual and that pisses me off.

Getting a handle on emotional eating is difficult. (((Luna)))

I try distraction techniques; sometimes I'll drink a full 16 oz of water first and then tell myself to wait 20 minutes. If I am legitimately hungry, then I'll have a snack.

Also I will write my thoughts a lot, looking for the specific emotional triggers that prompt me to comfort eat. If I can see exactly what's sparking it, then I can hope to find a different way to compensate.

For example, one of my biggest triggers is frustration. If I've had a hard day, I am much more likely to soothe myself with a tasty treat (Hello, Ben and Jerry's) than if I'm just blue. So if I find a more constructive way to deal with the frustration, it makes it less likely that I will binge.

But that said, if I do fail, I must not let myself succumb to self-loathing, because that just leads to the Brownie Shame Spiral, you know, where you decide you'd really like a brownie, bake a batch and then come to on the kitchen floor, crumbs in your hair with a half-eaten pan of brownies on the floor next to you.

Then you feel so awful that as a punishment, you eat the rest of them and lapse into a brownie coma.
 
I'm fortunate I don't gain wieght. Actaully, I have to go look for pants in the boy's section.

I've been eating chocolatte candy almost everyday. I'm physcally active enough that my body will burn through it easily.
I try to stay away from soda(corn syrup), deep fried foods becuase of the saturated fat.
Since I stopped drinking at such a young age...I never had a beer belly

It's actaully reverse for me. When life gets too much for me to handle. I emotionally shut down.
I don't eat. I'm more aware of these unhealthy behaviors I get into.

Attending support groups helps..bacailly I can go spill my guts if i needed to.
Talk about whatever that's bothering me...Sometimes I don't even have to share anything.
Just listen to other people...it'll trigger a lot of emotions within my own life.
I sit, stay and process my emotions for an hour.

The other day I was listening to a speaker share about his life. It was funni for the most part.
Then he said sometime that triggered alot of emotions in me. I almost broke down and cried.
It came up very quickly out of nowhere. it felt like my heart was going to explode, I actaully
notice myself holding my breathe when it came up as if I couldn't let go.
I also notice..I was going to shove those feelings deep back inside of me...but I didn't.
My eyes got very watery..I started to process my emotions and breathe...letting go.

He said something about suicide. Someone he love very much committed suicide.
It retriggered a lot of the feelings I have/had. My ex-gf used to do suicide threats all the time.
Recently my daughter did a suicide attempt. I felt very powerless over these matters.
My recovey program kicked in almost naturally. I've been applying the sodana methdoe in my life.
 
Lonesome Crow said:
I've been eating chocolatte candy almost everyday. I'm physcally active enough that my body will burn through it easily.

If I didn't ♥ you so much, I'd have to slap you for this.

Argh.
 
My emotional eating is getting worse and worse and worse lately. I've just given up with life altogether, just like 99% of people have given up on me. So I'll just keep stuffing my face I guess.
 

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