Failing relationships vs. NO relationships

[firebird85]

In my opinion, I think people who never had a relationship with the opposite sex are in a much worse situation then someone who has *no problem* finding someone but the relationship always fails. If that's happening, the problem is you and your standards. If you are only going by money and the status of someone, of course it's going to fail eventually. You love what they have, not who they are.

For the ones who never had a relationship in their life at 20, 30, etc. (unfortunately, it's mostly men who are dealing with this) that's where the problem is with the rest of the human race and society.

 

[Callie]

Yes, of course it's that simple. Thanks for pointing it out.

 

[Ak5]

^ I second that. And Callie you forgot your club.

Don't worry, I brought one. :club:

 

[Callie]

^ I second that. And Callie you forgot your club.

Don't worry, I brought one. :club:

awwww, you're so thoughtful

And might I add another :club:

 

[Ak5]

Clubfest.

:club: :club: :club: :club: :club:

 

[Callie]

OHHH, I'm the president of that clubfest

:club::club::club::club::club::club::club::club::club::club:

 

[Sci-Fi]

Okay you two, don't make me get out my mod club.

As for the topic, I disagree. Someone who's "never" had a relationship doesn't know what that person in a relationship is going through, and most are definitely not in it for materialistic reasons.

 

[Bones]

For me, the pain of not having a relationship or being lonely is better than the pain experienced in failed relationships - i just wish there was a lid for my pot out of the seven billion people in this world.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

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[Limlim]

....a lid for your pot?

 

[Bones]

I would tell you what it meant if you admitted the truth - during the time you were creating your username, you were stoned and typed "LimLim" instead of "Lilim" after taking a little blue pill (viagra) - with all of your "boner" references, this must be the case!

(the Lilim - plural - sexual bogeymen in some religions)

....a lid for your pot?

 

[Limlim]

Close! It's from a video game. My avatar is in fact a drawing of "a" limlim.

 

[Ak5]

Okay you two, don't make me get out my mod club.

As for the topic, I disagree. Someone who's "never" had a relationship doesn't know what that person in a relationship is going through, and most are definitely not in it for materialistic reasons.

That thing? I'm sure yours is small.

Mine is pretty big, see? :club:

 

[Callie]

Okay you two, don't make me get out my mod club.

As for the topic, I disagree. Someone who's "never" had a relationship doesn't know what that person in a relationship is going through, and most are definitely not in it for materialistic reasons.

That thing? I'm sure yours is small.

Mine is pretty big, see? :club:

I bet the mod club looks like this

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Oh and Ak5...you're gonna get me in trouble

 

[Ak5]

Ha.

No, you're (your ) not going to get in trouble. The worst thing Sci-Fi can do is lock the thread for getting off-topic.

 

[VanillaCreme]

I highly doubt it's mostly men dealing with this issue. People are people are people. Male or female, it doesn't really matter.

 

[Okiedokes]

I have hesitated to answer because I didn't know which one was worse.. but first I'd like to say that no relationship is always happy, so that makes it harder question to answer. I'd say as long as the relationship isn't violent or a complete failure, then it's better than being single. At least someone is there...to fight with... to love... to laugh... just like friends.

 

[Antihero]

Perhaps nothing is more soul-sucking than being in a relationship that you know is failing. That said, being alone sucks. Both suck, but in different ways.

 

[Copacel]

having the experience is better than no experience

end thread

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I agree with the OP, except for one thing...

People in relationships sometimes are going through pain, just like people who have never been in a relationship are going through. But in general, I do agree that most people that are in relationships, or have been, can't comprehend the loneliness that goes with being a 30, 40, or even 50 year old virgin.