Of course, the point was simply to discover whether people have found more than just inner happiness thanks to help from others words. There are so many who crave relations, and it makes sense that people who have been dealt the harsh card in life can potentially bring happiness to people in the same situation.
You can read some of the stories in the "success stories and positive experiences" section of the forum. They may not be on the first page, but they are there. A lot can happen whether you are, you just have to be open to it