How can I motivate you?

[AdamGoldman]

Hey guys!

I keep reading here over and over on guys who lost all hope
to overcome shyness and lead a good social life.

So my question to you is ...

How can I motivate you?
What will make you "jump off your seat" ?


The more info you share the better I can help =)

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Cant help you Adam....

Im not shy.

I think you might do better if you have a pair of tits
and actaully hold of these dudes hands and lead them to the right spot.

 

[blackdot]

high powered electrical shocks set up in the chair would get me to jump out of my seat

 

[AdamGoldman]

@crow,
you're too funny bro.

Yeah I'll call that plan b'

 

[putter65]

some success

 

[AdamGoldman]

@Putter,
in what situation are you in right now?

What would be considered success to you and in which time frame?

 

[putter65]

@Putter,
in what situation are you in right now?

What would be considered success to you and in which time frame?

I'm single.

Success would be a good relationship with a nice woman. Somebody who isn't cheating on me or crazy.

 

[AdamGoldman]

I'm actually single as well

Tho I have no problem talking to ladies
(or anyone for that matter)

In your opinion,
What keeps you from meeting a woman?

Please share as much details as possible

 

[putter65]

I'm actually single as well

Tho I have no problem talking to ladies
(or anyone for that matter)

In your opinion,
What keeps you from meeting a woman?

Please share as much details as possible

in my opinion.

well I'm not attractive enough / good enough or whatever for women to approach me or have a thing for me. eg crushes

So I have to do all the work. The chasing, the asking etc.

I'm not a social person. I don't drink. And where I'm from drinking is very important. Everybody else seems to drink.

I think if a woman showed a bit of interest I wouldn't mess it up. The trouble is they don't.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I can get into a relationship right now easily and have my own way.
She'd totally kiss my ass and than some.
I just have to lower my standard some. Not necessary in looks.
Plenty of cliggy, co dependent women walking around.

The type of woman that I'll just give attentions to every so offten.
My love would like totally intoxicating to her..Worst than drugs.
She's like low maintenace that way...And she'll never **** up the relationship
no matter what the **** I do. She's needie in a sort of way.

 

[AdamGoldman]

@putter,
seems to me the problem is you are WAITING for something to happen.

There's a really good idea circling the self-help world,
saying that "no one is coming."

Or as Jim Rohn,
for things to change, YOU have to change.

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That's the first step you ought'a do
make the switch and accepting the responsibility.

Makes sense?

 

[putter65]

@putter,
seems to me the problem is you are WAITING for something to happen.

There's a really good idea circling the self-help world,
saying that "no one is coming."

Or as Jim Rohn,
for things to change, YOU have to change.

link removed ~Minus

That's the first step you ought'a do
make the switch and accepting the responsibility.

Makes sense?

change what ?

I happen to like myself

 

[Gutted]

Give me £500. That'll motivate me big style lol.