How to get over a break up help...

[kindster]

I was thinking if anyone of you people can give me some methods how to get over that pain inside without many problems. I've been to therapist and told him what i feel and she told me that pain i have inside is normal to feel and that its important for growing up but it hurts so much[/align]. I can't focus on anything also lost interests in training and i can't eat. HELP btw i am 17 years old will be 18 in few months.

 

[Vinan]

1. You must accept the past and forgive it this way you close its door. By doing this the pain will disappear.

2. Understand you now have a new future and a new lover to be had look forward to the mystery of that and the new beginnings.

3. Go at it with all your heart and get what you desire this will encourage you to see life in the better for life really is how you see it. See it bad you will feel it bad. See it good and man your heaven on earth.

I hope this guides you in someway learn all you can from these and expand your understanding of this process if you do forever more you will have this as a skill within your life to save you when you need it.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

The pain is normal. The roller costers are normal.
Just go through ias best as you can. It dosnt have to
Be any perticilar way.

No one can define love for you. How much you
Value love. The meaning of love. How you feel
And process love.
This include therpist, counselor, clergymen ..
ect.
They are all just humans like you. No one
Have all the answers to the mysteries of life
And love.[/align]

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In my own personal experience....

Ive close doors. Open windows. Build new doors.
Stumbled in the hallway between the doors...
Ivr cried my heart out. Ive prayed. Ive let go.

Ive move on with my life.
I even gotten married and deviorced.
Ive gotten in long term relationships.
Onr that lasted over 12 years.
ive also dated plenty of women.
Sometimes even multiple women at the sometime.

Ive never gotten over Renae.
I met her as a young man.
Shr was my Hs sweetheart. AND also my fiancee.
We broke up and gotten back together over and over again.
This will be our 7 th time.
I cant say i cant live without her or didnt know how
To move on without her..becuase ive had.

The only time ive ever felt peace and truely loved..
No matter how shiity our relationship can get at times..
Is when shes by my side. I put all my heart and soul
into loving her. She's the love of my life.

 

[Murmur]

Sometimes you have to experience things the hard way... nobody can tell you how things feel. Pain sucks, but it'll go away in time.

Do something nice for yourself every day... even if it's buying a box of your favorite cereal. Makes a difference, and allows you to focus on YOU and heal.

Just my two copper.

 

[Kat]

You will feel better about this when you change your perspective on it. Don't be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.