I have had a friend for a few years, but I don't want to be friends anymore. Too many mean passive aggressive things from her side have happened and I just won't simply tolerate it anymore. In my eyes she just doesn't behave like a friend, and I haven't the time for it anymore.
I could be honest and say how I feel, but she would twist it. Which she did last weekend when some arrangements where being made. She had made a huge fuss and problem about something that had been agreed months before, and there was no problem. She kept battering me with messages all morning and I was getting stressed. Anyway I rang her and she made me feel so small like I was the one creating the fuss.
I was quite hurt a while ago last year I had bent over backwards to help her and her family. I then had an emergency situation in a hospital and could not get hold of anymore else. I needed a ride home. She seemed really put out and said she couldn't help. Which was fine, but a few weeks later she brought it up saying how I had put such a dampner on a family meal with my request, she didn't want to help because she had been cooking all day.
I am done with this kind of behaviour, life is too short. Any ideas of how to cool it down?
I could be honest and say how I feel, but she would twist it. Which she did last weekend when some arrangements where being made. She had made a huge fuss and problem about something that had been agreed months before, and there was no problem. She kept battering me with messages all morning and I was getting stressed. Anyway I rang her and she made me feel so small like I was the one creating the fuss.
I was quite hurt a while ago last year I had bent over backwards to help her and her family. I then had an emergency situation in a hospital and could not get hold of anymore else. I needed a ride home. She seemed really put out and said she couldn't help. Which was fine, but a few weeks later she brought it up saying how I had put such a dampner on a family meal with my request, she didn't want to help because she had been cooking all day.
I am done with this kind of behaviour, life is too short. Any ideas of how to cool it down?
