I am extremely lonely and antisocial

[jr70895]

57 year old white male. I am divorced for 20 years, date no one and have no friends. I have totally isolated myself from friends/family. I have had offers to do things with co-workers but always make lame excuses and do not accept their offers. I wish I could change but refuse to. I am a total recluse, never even go out to eat, always bring food home.
My life is just beyond repair and too far gone. I know at my age women are looking at men for security and material things such as nice home/car etc and I just cannot offer these things.
I have accepted the fact that I will die a lonely old man. The reason I know this is because I totally refuse to change my current lifestyle.

 

[Blue Sky]

57 year old white male. I am divorced for 20 years, date no one and have no friends. I have totally isolated myself from friends/family. I have had offers to do things with co-workers but always make lame excuses and do not accept their offers. I wish I could change but refuse to. I am a total recluse, never even go out to eat, always bring food home.
My life is just beyond repair and too far gone. I know at my age women are looking at men for security and material things such as nice home/car etc and I just cannot offer these things.
I have accepted the fact that I will die a lonely old man. The reason I know this is because I totally refuse to change my current lifestyle.

Well it seems to me that you are affected by this reclusive lifestyle, or else you wouldn't have started this thread. Why do you refuse to change your current lifestyle? There are poeple older than you who retire from work at 60-65 and they start a new phase in there lifes, with new hobbies, travel, even relocation.
I also think that not all women at your age, aren't just looking for security and material things. Many women by that age could be financially secure themselves and maybe just looking for friendship or a new relationship. I'm in my fourties, so I'm not in your situation yet and it's only my opinion but, I think that life has many things to offer young and old.

 

[NewBirth]

i read this thread the last time u posted it. im sorry u still havent had any improvements. but u probably wont as long as u refuse 2 change ur current lifestyle