I am not sure what to title this...

[floffyschneeman]

3 days ago, I decided to stopped going here for awhile as some of the threads affected me so badly in ways I didn't expect.

While it was maybe my fault for being overly sensitive, I also think that sometimes we forget to realize how we do or say make other people feel.
There are some things we can't take lightly and having a bit of tactfulness wouldn't make you less fun of a person.

I hope people would care for other people, not just their friends but for everyone on this forum.

 

[Limlim]

I didn't do it. We loves the floff on this end.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Floffaloff! Who did this to you! I'll skin'im!
Don't leave us! (hug)

 

[Sci-Fi]

It's the internet Floff, sometimes the way someone types something, and the way someone else understands/interprets it isn't necessarily the way the author meant it. Gotta take it with a grain of salt at times and not get too worked up about it. Hopefully you're doing better. God I hope it wasn't something I said :/ don't want to get skinned.

 

[Sprint]

3 days ago, I decided to stopped going here for awhile as some of the threads affected me so badly in ways I didn't expect.

While it was maybe my fault for being overly sensitive, I also think that sometimes we forget to realize how we do or say make other people feel.
There are some things we can't take lightly and having a bit of tactfulness wouldn't make you less fun of a person.

I hope people would care for other people, not just their friends but for everyone on this forum.

When I first read this, I thought "arhg another sensitive 1 on the internet". Then I decided to take a look @ your profile. I then realized it's not that you/anyone else may be too sensitive, but instead that I may just be too hard/cold.

So I just want to thank you for posting this. I realize it's more about COMPROMISE between the sensitive and hard personalities online. Each side must meet half-way. The sensitives have to learn that people don't always mean to say what it may sound like they're saying. And the colds have to learn that not everyone is so seasoned online to take everything they experience with a grain of salt.

 

[Badjedidude]

FLOFFFFFF

WHO HURTED YOUUU?? I KILL DEM!!!!

 

[Drama]

((((((((((((((((((floff)))))))))))))))))))

 

[Callie]

((((floffy)))))

It wasn't me, was it? (come on, I have been a bitch lately) lol

I hope you feel better soon and come back to us. If you need anything just let me know, you know how to find me.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Theres many ways I can look at this...

Im well enough to know. Im repsonsible for my own thoughts, emotions and happiness.

Not denying some people are un thoughtful and theres some really negative **** that gose on here sometimes....

Its kindda like a bridge or prinicples I can also apply in real life....
People arnt always going to kind and thoughtful in real life...

Whatever living tools..I can apply.
Weather I ignore it and dont participate in it or I have thick snik/torerlance.

Though my tolerance level is corrolated to the level of peace within myself.

At any rate... I have a chioce.
People are going to do what theyre going do. Say what they.re going to say..

But if anyone ever say **** to me or about me.
Make no mistakes...I wont put up with that ****. I know all the manipulations, mud flinging, blamshiting or whatever the **** negative behaviors people get into...However anyone wants to percieve it from their own perceptions.

Ive had little ******* wanna PM me for thier private bashing. Lmao

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ITs not any different when my abusive father used to isolate me...conner me
and had his bashed fest on me.
Oh yes....his opinions and ideas are so much superior than mine. LMAO

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Make No Mistake...
Ive taken myself out of the victim role...

Lots of healthy members on here had pionted that out to me. That I was playing the victim. I had to work on that.

Bwt..Ive also been known to make those little ******* cried and weep. Lmao
Im also capiable of being a major prick..
This too is a role I can play.

Geeze they have feelings too?
Imagine that...

The message is...
DONT LET POEPLE RENT SPACE IN YOUR HEAD. DONT RELINGUISH YOUR POWER.

 

[floffyschneeman]

Thanks for everyone who replied. It has made me feel better and no it wasn't your post that made me upset. *hugs*

I know that being overly sensitive can get you no where and that you can't really expect people to go easy on you, specially when they don't know you. This is indeed the internet, this is the world. But I guess, it's also my fault for relying so much on this site. It has become my cave of some sort as I've always felt accepted and that I belong here. Lately, it's just hard to deal with it. Without it, I find myself very lonely but also I know I can't continue harboring ill feelings for something I can't help or change. I know people don't mean it, it's not their fault. Some of them, yeah, but most are also just writing what they feel in order to rant out and feel better.

I tend to idealize things which also made me idealize this site as something lonely, aloof people with social difficulties go through, and I expected people here to have a bit of sensitiveness as most have felt being left out.

I don't think it's anyone's fault rather it's a natural process of society. Our culture today (global, I meant) enables people to say freely what they want without minding about others. Which I think is silly as it is a delusional sense of freedom as you'll still be controlled by your own whims.

Anyway, I am ranting now. It's something I can't change but rather live along. It's just sad. I wonder what will be the definition of freedom in generations to come.

Also, maybe I just get affected over very little things as it's not a good moment for me. But this too shall pass.

I really appreciate your replies.

When I first read this, I thought "arhg another sensitive 1 on the internet". Then I decided to take a look @ your profile. I then realized it's not that you/anyone else may be too sensitive, but instead that I may just be too hard/cold.

So I just want to thank you for posting this. I realize it's more about COMPROMISE between the sensitive and hard personalities online. Each side must meet half-way. The sensitives have to learn that people don't always mean to say what it may sound like they're saying. And the colds have to learn that not everyone is so seasoned online to take everything they experience with a grain of salt.

Thanks too, and yes it's about compromise. If it's not really necessary, why say something that might offend others. And just as everybody expect sensitive people to understand that not everyone is like them so as everyone (ideally) must learn that whatever he/she says might affect someone, specially on this kind of site where almost everyone of us (if not all) have had bad experiences or personal problems we are going through. I'd expect insensitive comments from people in other places, I just didn't expect it from here. Well anyway, I do understand that all of us are also trying to be the best persons we can. I guess I don't expect anything from other people, but more of myself. To learn how to toughen up.

 

[Sprint]

Thanks for everyone who replied. It has made me feel better and no it wasn't your post that made me upset. *hugs*

I know that being overly sensitive can get you no where and that you can't really expect people to go easy on you, specially when they don't know you. This is indeed the internet, this is the world. But I guess, it's also my fault for relying so much on this site. It has become my cave of some sort as I've always felt accepted and that I belong here. Lately, it's just hard to deal with it. Without it, I find myself very lonely but also I know I can't continue harboring ill feelings for something I can't help or change. I know people don't mean it, it's not their fault. Some of them, yeah, but most are also just writing what they feel in order to rant out and feel better.

I tend to idealize things which also made me idealize this site as something lonely, aloof people with social difficulties go through, and I expected people here to have a bit of sensitiveness as most have felt being left out.

I don't think it's anyone's fault rather it's a natural process of society. Our culture today (global, I meant) enables people to say freely what they want without minding about others. Which I think is silly as it is a delusional sense of freedom as you'll still be controlled by your own whims.

Anyway, I am ranting now. It's something I can't change but rather live along. It's just sad. I wonder what will be the definition of freedom in generations to come.

Also, maybe I just get affected over very little things as it's not a good moment for me. But this too shall pass.

I really appreciate your replies.

When I first read this, I thought "arhg another sensitive 1 on the internet". Then I decided to take a look @ your profile. I then realized it's not that you/anyone else may be too sensitive, but instead that I may just be too hard/cold.

So I just want to thank you for posting this. I realize it's more about COMPROMISE between the sensitive and hard personalities online. Each side must meet half-way. The sensitives have to learn that people don't always mean to say what it may sound like they're saying. And the colds have to learn that not everyone is so seasoned online to take everything they experience with a grain of salt.

Thanks too, and yes it's about compromise. If it's not really necessary, why say something that might offend others. And just as everybody expect sensitive people to understand that not everyone is like them so as everyone (ideally) must learn that whatever he/she says might affect someone, specially on this kind of site where almost everyone of us (if not all) have had bad experiences or personal problems we are going through. I'd expect insensitive comments from people in other places, I just didn't expect it from here. Well anyway, I do understand that all of us are also trying to be the best persons we can. I guess I don't expect anything from other people, but more of myself. To learn how to toughen up.

I've only been here a few days, but I see how tasteless some can be. Quite frankly, it's easy to see why these types are lonely... no one wants to be around them lol.

However, I tend to think of these types of people as sick. They are sick ... in the mind, and just as a person without eyes cannot see - they are without a mind that can think properly.

Sometimes empathy is all we can offer to someone who is sick, be they sick physically or sick in the mind.

 

[Felix]

I've only been here a few days, but I see how tasteless some can be. Quite frankly, it's easy to see why these types are lonely... no one wants to be around them lol.

However, I tend to think of these types of people as sick. They are sick ... in the mind, and just as a person without eyes cannot see - they are without a mind that can think properly.

Sometimes empathy is all we can offer to someone who is sick, be they sick physically or sick in the mind.

Some people are alone becose they are destructive and full of unpleasant feelings... they can't give something good, they have serious problems that need to be treated...