I HAVE AN EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY TONIGHT - HELP!!!

[Mr. Sir]

Finally got my thunderbolt's number and she's coming to a study group with me and some random kids. I invited her there through facebook. She is a conservative Muslim, wears a hijab, and she's beautiful. This one other girl in the group (kinda dumpy) says that I cuss too much, so I shouldn't cuss at all. The Muslim girl says some bad words, but not too many. It's important in the Muslim culture to treat peop le with alot of respect, but she's half white American.

What's a way that I show her I'm respectful but have a backbone. Like how can I show her I'm a really funny guy but also hard working and serious, and can get it together. Should I be chill or aggressive? I am really attracted to this girl and I don't want to mess it up.

 

[PieBeNice]

Be yourself.

 

[Depressedology]

Socrates, I'm not planing to **** block you or anything. But, I'm from a country called Bahrin, lived 18 years in a conservative muslim village, too. (but i'm not ) alright, listen:
reason she puts hijab is an emblem to (express her personality more than her look.) ~ you can put it that way.
to make it short, let me list few expectations of mine:
-she's virgin
-she doesn't want one to check her out.
-more interested in a friendship more than a relationship.
-it's really one hell of a sin/shame if she's gone all the way with someone. non-married (at this level of conservative, she doesn't drink right?)
- let's assume you brought it to a successful relationship: Muslim women are NOT allowed to marry non-muslims men! one of you have to convert!


so, in conclusion... you got the idea? make a nice friend of her or forget and try again.

 

[Punisher]

It's important in the Muslim culture to treat people with alot of respect

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Socrates, I'm not planing to **** block you or anything. But, I'm from a country called Bahrin, lived 18 years in a conservative muslim village, too. (but i'm not ) alright, listen:
reason she puts hijab is an emblem to (express her personality more than her look.) ~ you can put it that way.
to make it short, let me list few expectations of mine:
-she's virgin
-she doesn't want one to check her out.
-more interested in a friendship more than a relationship.
-it's really one hell of a sin/shame if she's gone all the way with someone. non-married (at this level of conservative, she doesn't drink right?)
- let's assume you brought it to a successful relationship: Muslim women are NOT allowed to marry non-muslims men! one of you have to convert!


so, in conclusion... you got the idea? make a nice friend of her or forget and try again.

Or he can get lucky and shag her, but then be the reason for another honour killing.

 

[Mr. Sir]

Socrates, I'm not planing to **** block you or anything. But, I'm from a country called Bahrin, lived 18 years in a conservative muslim village, too. (but i'm not ) alright, listen:
reason she puts hijab is an emblem to (express her personality more than her look.) ~ you can put it that way.
to make it short, let me list few expectations of mine:
-she's virgin
-she doesn't want one to check her out.
-more interested in a friendship more than a relationship.
-it's really one hell of a sin/shame if she's gone all the way with someone. non-married (at this level of conservative, she doesn't drink right?)
- let's assume you brought it to a successful relationship: Muslim women are NOT allowed to marry non-muslims men! one of you have to convert!


so, in conclusion... you got the idea? make a nice friend of her or forget and try again.

I'd convert. I also think I could make her convert to New Age for me.

 

[Depressedology]

I'd convert. I also think I could make her convert to New Age for me.

..!!! LMAO..!!. keep the spirit man. be yourself and be a cool gentleman and best of luck!

 

[MountainTop]

shes half white and she wears the full traditional muslim dress? wow never heard of that.
My advice would be this

Dont hit on her the usual american way.
Tell her straight up that you like her a lot, but also respect her traditions and would like to know what is the appropriate way to court her. Its a long shot, but hey, its better than trying to hit on her the same way everybody else does.

Best of luck

 

[Enchantress]

Well,if she is open with you and you think that she likes you then definitely go for it.Try to appear nice,polite,fun,friendly and show her that you're good at work too.Don't do things you'd casually do to other American girls like hugs and so except if its ok with her.Maybe ask her for her email if u hadn't already so that you guys can text and take it slowly.Ask her to come over more often and eventually when you are friends and you're sure she likes you back then tell her that you want to have a relationship with her and ask her about what she expects from you to do and what she doesn't expect from you.Sure there is gonna be obstacles in your way but I believe you can overcome anything.You sound like you really love her.Good Luck.I want to know what happens.
(I live in a muslim country so I should know ;o )

 

[Mr. Sir]

shes half white and she wears the full traditional muslim dress? wow never heard of that.
My advice would be this

Dont hit on her the usual american way.
Tell her straight up that you like her a lot, but also respect her traditions and would like to know what is the appropriate way to court her. Its a long shot, but hey, its better than trying to hit on her the same way everybody else does.

Best of luck

Is that appropriate to do to any girl, tell her straight up you like her?

I'm so bad with girls I cant imagine any of them liking me.

 

[samba101]

Well Socrates looks like you have confidence issues, just let the relationship grow, let her get to know who you really are and take it from there. If she's wearing a hajib, it's likely her parents will have traditional views in their regards to her having boyfriends, most likely she won't be allowed and there within lies the answer to her not being able to date anyone.