i love you- hard to believe

[jrs]

what do you do if you have such low self-esteem that you can't believe that anyone would ever love you so you push anyone away who says these words?

 

[mink]

Seek therapy? That's what I'd do, maybe. Or just talk to someone professional, maybe work on my self-esteem a little for the benefit of myself. Doesn't have to be a big step, I'd take it in small steps. That's what I'd probably do. So I won't risk pushing anyone who would actually really love me.

 

[NewBirth]

1st u find out y u have such low self esteem

 

[lonelyheartsxx]

What mink said, seek therapy.....and find ppl to talk to, or find a way to raise your self esteem....I don't really know, but maybe also do some volunteer work....that'd be helping others & u know ppl like that, and that'd make u feel better about yourself.

 

[Blue Sky]

what do you do if you have such low self-esteem that you can't believe that anyone would ever love you so you push anyone away who says these words?

Well if someone tells you that they love you, I would try to accept what they have said. Maybe think about why they said these words to you. They are very positive and compassionate words.
As for your self esteem issue, I agree with mink on that one.

 

[Guest]

Most people dont mean the words I love you anyway. People just throw those words around like any other. They dont mean anything anymore. Maybe they never did.