I need help with Girls!!!!!!!!!!

[gothandre]

I aleays go to the club, alone, sicne i don't have friends. There are lots of girls there, and i dont know what to do
I'm always at the gym, working out, and there are girls there, but i don't know how to start a conversation with them, and keep the conversation cool, and, after some time, ask for her number and so on...
Well, can you guys help me?
*How do i talk to a girl in the club?(how do i start a conversation)
*If she asks me where my friends are, what do i say?
*When and how can i ask for her number or msn?
*How to attract a girl without having friends? (being aloner)

Thank you guys

 

[Callie]

Start by saying hello.... Don't use ANY corny pick up lines.
Just because you're at a club doesn't mean you went there with anyone, I know a number of people who go alone. If you hit it off and you both enjoy the company, just ask her for her number, the worst she can say is no.
As far as the no friends goes, maybe you should try to get some. Some concept applies, so hello to people, eventually you will find one that you connect with. Then you won't have to worry about not having friends because you will have some.

 

[annik]

Maybe if you are interested offer her your number rather than asking for hers? I'd agree try and be as natural as possible and don't use any "lines".

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Just started intruducing yourself to people in general and dont over think it...

It.s not about saying a particular line..
Its about building repore with people..
Like playing tennis..back and forth.
Onething leads to another.

With some people itll lead somewhere it others it wont.

The more you interact with people..the more you will adjust...

Just like my new friend that I met recently. She just called me to go hang out at the park for a while..then onething lead to another...We were hanging out in her place.. We juist hung out and watch movies.
I didnt ask her if I could go to her house. Just going with the flow..

The samething happened when I met Juliet. At first she just asked me to go have coffee with her. Then shell text me every so often...then one thing lead to another...she ended up at her house.

These two woem are very pretty..but it donst matter. Theyre just people.

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You can ask women for numbers all day long or right out of the gate..it dosnt Matter.
A woman can come on to you even...but if you dont build repore with her...its not going to go anywhere.

You dont even have to ask question or give out informations about yourself...
its just building repore.
Most of the time its light heart and joking around conversations.

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You just gottat mindful about certain hints or clues a woamn will give you.
Its an invivation for you to move in closer...so when she dose that...Make your move.

As I said...body comtacts...gradual body contacts.
If your in anight club and have the balls to just her for a dance..Simply reach out your hand and lead her on to the dance floor or you can put your hand on her lower back or waste. While on the dance floor you dont even have dance that good...yourll either chit chat or shell dance around you.

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If she feels comfortiable with you...
Had a good time with you....shell wanna spend for time with you...you build on that More light hearted and joking around conversations...
Onething will lead to another.

Yes. Im kiss women or had sex with them on the first night...its still building repore...Just at a faster rate.

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For the most part....
I dont take things too seriouisly...
This puts me in less tense state...
Im more easy going....

To maixmize my attittude energy level..
Basically I think Everyone in the bar are fucken retartded and its one big fuicken joke...I have a sort of smile or that attitide of I am the fucken ****. LmAO...

Its funny ****.. I can laugh at myself. Nothing is a big deal. Kind da making every around me like a mole hill or its not such a big deal...which makes me more approchable. Women feels more relaxed around me...therefore theyll start palying with me...

 

[Limlim]

The picture of the club you showed me appeared to be a full on fitness complex. See if they have like... sporting events you can participate in. Make friends with your team... and stuff.