Carebear2010
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ha ha ha ha y'all so lonely. get off the ******' computer n get outside n mingle. I hate the freakin' government n health care system. oh, yeah relgion too. **** em all
I wanna be banned
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Nothing real radical about hating the government or the health care system, religion too. Yes there is undoubtedly lonely people on a lonely forum and mingling is probably a good idea.
trZ
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wow dude carebear thanks man you opened up my eyes. You're awesome! You truly are a carebear.
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EveWasFramed
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Is it a full moon?
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cheaptrickfan
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EveWasFramed said:
Or some sort of online St. Vitus's dance mass insanity. Jesus.
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EveWasFramed
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cheaptrickfan said:
I love you.
lol
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cheaptrickfan
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EveWasFramed said:cheaptrickfan said:
I love you.
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NJLonelyIsBack
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I'd love to troll on this board, but it's not worth it in the long run.
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EveWasFramed
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Trolls dont get "long runs" here I'm afraid...we handle them pretty quickly.
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Tex Is Lost
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cheaptrickfan said:
Had St. Vitus's dance when I was little. Also called Corea.
Brian
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Fail troll can't even get a reaction out of people or get banned in one post...
VanillaCreme
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This is great.
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SophiaGrace
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What you are saying sounds bitter. It sounds like you are telling everyone to **** off, which, to me, only seems like a reflection of the inner pain you must feel. It's not as simple as going out and mingling. I mean, yes, for some of us, mingling would be facing our fears, but the real challenge lies within how to form meaningful friendships with people we interact with on a daily basis. I have not mastered this. This is my stumbling block and something I am working on currently in therapy. Once I master this, I will deem myself socially competent.
I don't think telling people to "**** off" for lack of a better term, is such a great idea. It isolates people from you. Lots of people probably get into this mood, but, it's not the best idea to tell people to "**** off".
Oh and, there are people here in various stages of recovery. I, personally, am at a point where I feel myself moving forward and feel much less stuck than I used to be. This is after two years of being here though.
So, in conclusion, why judge people for the length of time they stay here on this site? Or for their recovery time? Some people are very resilient and bounce back, others, have to slowly inch their way into recovery. Everyone needs their space to be able to do this. I do not think recovery can be procured in a judgemental environment.
Some people believe being nonjudgemental is coddling others, but, as long as enabling is not occuring, I do not see any problem with being as nonjudgemental as possible.
An extreme example of not enabling would be this: My cousin was a heroin addict. She struggled for years with addiction to this drug and was in and out of rehabs that my aunt/uncle paid for for her. Finally, my aunt stood up to my uncle and said "It's me or her." So, my cousin went to california, and a year or so later they found her in her car with a heroin needle sticking out of her arm. She had died of a drug overdose.
So, what is my conclusion with this? Sometimes, not enabling is not the answer. Sometimes, there is no answer. All we can do is believe in other people, instead of tearing them down. For I really do not think there are many people on this site with great self esteem, and we all need to believe in ourselves to be able to enact change in our life. And once we believe in ourselves, we need goals in order to start moving forward.
We have to keep in mind that there are some people here with no idea how to move forward in their lives. They are lost in a wilderness. All we can ever do for these people is hold their hands, comfort them and attempt to guide them. Some may not move right away. Some may never move, with their heads tucked under their arms in defeat.
These people who are in this state of defeat, I do not think should be judged. I, personally, feel sad for and empathize with them because I have been there. I wish there were not people in this world that were stuck in these states of suffering and there are those who say it is a choice they make to stay there. When I look at these people though, I do not see a choice, I see a person sitting in a vast wilderness with no idea how to get out of it.
I hope that helps. If you truely want to leave, just ask for an account deletion.
I don't think telling people to "**** off" for lack of a better term, is such a great idea. It isolates people from you. Lots of people probably get into this mood, but, it's not the best idea to tell people to "**** off".
Oh and, there are people here in various stages of recovery. I, personally, am at a point where I feel myself moving forward and feel much less stuck than I used to be. This is after two years of being here though.
So, in conclusion, why judge people for the length of time they stay here on this site? Or for their recovery time? Some people are very resilient and bounce back, others, have to slowly inch their way into recovery. Everyone needs their space to be able to do this. I do not think recovery can be procured in a judgemental environment.
Some people believe being nonjudgemental is coddling others, but, as long as enabling is not occuring, I do not see any problem with being as nonjudgemental as possible.
An extreme example of not enabling would be this: My cousin was a heroin addict. She struggled for years with addiction to this drug and was in and out of rehabs that my aunt/uncle paid for for her. Finally, my aunt stood up to my uncle and said "It's me or her." So, my cousin went to california, and a year or so later they found her in her car with a heroin needle sticking out of her arm. She had died of a drug overdose.
So, what is my conclusion with this? Sometimes, not enabling is not the answer. Sometimes, there is no answer. All we can do is believe in other people, instead of tearing them down. For I really do not think there are many people on this site with great self esteem, and we all need to believe in ourselves to be able to enact change in our life. And once we believe in ourselves, we need goals in order to start moving forward.
We have to keep in mind that there are some people here with no idea how to move forward in their lives. They are lost in a wilderness. All we can ever do for these people is hold their hands, comfort them and attempt to guide them. Some may not move right away. Some may never move, with their heads tucked under their arms in defeat.
These people who are in this state of defeat, I do not think should be judged. I, personally, feel sad for and empathize with them because I have been there. I wish there were not people in this world that were stuck in these states of suffering and there are those who say it is a choice they make to stay there. When I look at these people though, I do not see a choice, I see a person sitting in a vast wilderness with no idea how to get out of it.
I hope that helps. If you truely want to leave, just ask for an account deletion.
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SophiaGrace
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I also want to add something else. I noticed in your previous posts that you mentioned you were deaf. Do you think being deaf has made it harder for you to make friends? I would think it would create communication barriers.
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cheaptrickfan
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Brian said:Fail troll can't even get a reaction out of people or get banned in one post...
That looks like Henry Rollins, but if he gained about 20 pounds in his neck.
As for the rest: WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON AROUND HERE?
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