I want to get married

[itoldacooljoke]

23yo/male/student

I am looking for a long term relationship and marriage. I feel like I have partied around too much and at this point, I am looking for a real commitment. I still feel lonely in a way that people around my age are not looking for a real relationship, but rather a good time. So if you are a girl emotionally available, drop me a word, will you?

Thanks

 

[Ghost Boy]

Marriage? Don't you think that's a little soon?

 

[Badjedidude]

This isn't a dating site.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Must not snark...must not snark...must not...

 

[A Desolate Soul]

why do you want to sign your life away?

 

[floffyschneeman]

I am a man.

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

I am a man.

(wary)

 

[itoldacooljoke]

Marriage? Don't you think that's a little soon?

No.

This isn't a dating site.

Despite the fact that this forum is full of dating threads/posts and that it is called a Lonely Life, which is pretty much a general topic than no, it is not a dating website.

Must not snark...must not snark...must not...

Who cares? If any of you people have anything to say, just shut up. Do not waste your time. If you are registered on this forum, you are missing something in your life (I know I am), so go snark on that.

why do you want to sign your life away?

No one is forcing you to watch.

I am a man.

Go to a gay thread.

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

Such frustration...

Why don't you explain your situation more in detail?

This is a site for people who are alone or lonely, not all are looking for a relationship. You are in the relationship thread so kudos on getting that right, but most people are looking for advice on current or future relationships. Perhaps if you had taken more time to look around the forum, introduce yourself or fill out your bio as much as you're willing, you wouldn't receive such a cold welcome. You certainly aren't conducting yourself in a manner that anyone would want to reply seriously too. Look at your post objectively: an anonymous man asking for marriage from an anonymous woman...really?


But first and foremost to not insult people or attack them for a witty comment. Anyone can act tough online, you're not helping yourself by being hostile.

 

[IgnoredOne]

You're right. I'm missing a cafe latte.

Perhaps you shouldn't be so eager to paint everyone with the same broad brush; more importantly, I needed a great deal when I first joined the forum. I've remained, but 1700 posts and four years later, I am not quite the same person with the same needs as when I joined, capiche?

 

[itoldacooljoke]

Such frustration...

Why don't you explain your situation more in detail?

This is a site for people who are alone or lonely, not all are looking for a relationship. You are in the relationship thread so kudos on getting that right, but most people are looking for advice on current or future relationships. Perhaps if you had taken more time to look around the forum, introduce yourself or fill out your bio as much as you're willing, you wouldn't receive such a cold welcome. You certainly aren't conducting yourself in a manner that anyone would want to reply seriously too. Look at your post objectively: an anonymous man asking for marriage from an anonymous woman...really?


But first and foremost to not insult people or attack them for a witty comment. Anyone can act tough online, you're not helping yourself by being hostile.

How exactly have I insulted and attacked people?

You're right. I'm missing a cafe latte.

Perhaps you shouldn't be so eager to paint everyone with the same broad brush; more importantly, I needed a great deal when I first joined the forum. I've remained, but 1700 posts and four years later, I am not quite the same person with the same needs as when I joined, capiche?

Dude, according to your posts you were still a virgin at 23... can you really snark or give an opinion on this thread? Really???

 

[IgnoredOne]

Dude, according to your posts you were still a virgin at 23... can you really snark or give an opinion on this thread? Really???

Sure I can. For example, your attitude is feels hostile, your entire post is more than slightly dubious and things can change a great deal in four years with the right intention and attitude and will. And well, let's just say that I made up for lost time. As for you, though, there are far better ways of making a first impression than trolling for a girl, which you basically seem to be.

I also wasn't completely honest in that post, in retrospect. But that's something for another time.

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

Dude, according to your posts you were still a virgin at 23... can you really snark or give an opinion on this thread? Really???

Really? Haha. Hypocrite.


First off. IgnoredOne isn't going to care at all about what you have to say.

What does virginity have anything to do with marriage anyway?

You obviously have a lot to learn about a lot.

The way you react to comments as nonsensical as these shows me that you should be posting in the Self-Esteem section and not the Relationships area. Why are you caring about what we have to say so much?

 

[itoldacooljoke]

Dude, according to your posts you were still a virgin at 23... can you really snark or give an opinion on this thread? Really???

Sure I can. For example, your attitude is uniformly hostile about people you don't know, your entire post is more than slightly dubious and things can change a great deal in four years with the right intention and attitude and will. There are far better ways of making a first impression than trolling for a girl.

I also wasn't completely honest in that post, in retrospect. But that's something for another time.

How am I the hostile one about people I do not know? You just dropped your atitude after I mentioned a fact about your life that you posted here. But now there is another story?

You guys come to this forum and complain how other people judge you without knowing you, but yet that is exactly what you're doing on this thread. How can a virgin and someone who does not leave their house judge someone on this particular thread? And yet you play the victim because you cannot handle a reply in the same tone as your judgement.

Honestly, I do not care at all.

 

[Badjedidude]

Despite the fact that this forum is full of dating threads/posts and that it is called a Lonely Life, which is pretty much a general topic than no, it is not a dating website.

And... what?

You just expected to post a single thread on this lonely people site and what would happen?

An instant love connection? Marriage? Just from one post? No one's going to read anything other than desperation in a one-post message asking for marriage straight off the bat.

I think you've sorely misunderstood how forums like this one actually work.

...

Nonetheless, you're welcome to stay and make some friends if you're lonely.

 

[theSmokingRabbit]

Honestly, I do not care at all.

Then why are you here?

Just curious...

 

[itoldacooljoke]

Dude, according to your posts you were still a virgin at 23... can you really snark or give an opinion on this thread? Really???

What does virginity have anything to do with marriage anyway?

You obviously have a lot to learn about a lot.

Why are you caring about what we have to say so much?

Your lack of life experience amazes me. Don't we all have a lot to learn about? I honestly don't care and I'll stop answering from now on, I am just pointing out stupidity and lack of judgement. Lack of self esteem? Dude, please get out of the house every once in a while...

You should print this on a t-shirt. It's priceless!
"What does virginity have anything to do with marriage anyway?"

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Fellas, fellas. I think we're losing sight of the point here. The most important thing to remember is...

MARRIAGE = DEATH.

 

[Badjedidude]

Your lack of life experience amazes me. Don't we all have a lot to learn about? I honestly don't and I'll stop answering from now on, I am just pointing out stupidity and lack of judgement. Lack of self esteem? Dude, please get out of the house every once in a while...

You're getting quite nasty and bitter for someone who's here looking for a wife based on a single post.

Women don't like nasty attitudes, bro.

Good luck with that.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Ah, assumptions. I do love them <3