important attributes for a girl to have

[sleepflower]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

 

[GHOSTNYOURMIST]

Boobs are good. but it seems to me like most hot women know they are hot and wouldn't even look at an average guy like me.

I'm a sucker for a beautiful smile.

 

[Scott]

Sounds like the type of girl I usually avoid.

Intelligence, wicked sense of humour, loyalty, I guess those are the main things. Yeah it would be stupid to say physical attraction doesn't come into it as well, it's important too, but in the long run that's not what you fall in love with.

 

[bookbinder]

massive boobs and sex mad? sounds like my kind of woman. Who needs one that's intelligent, ambitious, and passionate?

 

[Incognita]

..yea, and no brains???? What a great taste in women...

 

[Bluey]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

All prove you wrong. I am not into big boobs at all. I do like a nice peer of legs But most importantly I like a girl to not be to for up her self and the natural look really works for me. Big boobs and lots of makeup really do nothing for me. Good nice attitude is all it would take. Moor impotently is a girl that can make me laugh. If you got that, you got me

 

[Minus]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

I can't speak for "most guys" and while i can't say if it is the most important attribute, because i just don't know, the big boob thing does seem to impress some. The bigger the better. Dragging on the floor, trip over them size.

While i may notice boobs they are way down the list of concerns for me. Probably about as important as her sock color to me.

The single most important attribute to me would be fidelity. Without that no matter how many other great appealing characteristics she may have, any relationship would be headed for destruction anyway.

 

[Jeremi]

Personality >>>>>>>>>> Looks

There are shallow women out there, just like men, and I wouldn't toutch one with a stick

Speaking of looks however, I find more natural girls to be a lot hotter than the plastic looking, too much make-up wearing, ultra fake blonde haired females that seem to be 95% of the female population here. In fact, I kind of feel instant despise when I see women like that.

And while we're discussing boobs, I actually find small boobs very hot, so there, not all guys like huge boobs. Not that it matters though.

LOOKS IS OVERRATED!!!!!

 

[Outlawstarl337]

well if we're talking pyisical atributes purly then i also like the legs. [but i also like the rear *Evil smile*] I also like girls to be shorter or equal hight to me though im not going to turn down a girl over that.

now if you want to knew the persinalitys i like they are shy girls, tomboys, nice girls and the asertive ones that arent snobs. they also should be loyal and honest. Id also would like one that likes to cudle ^^

Speaking of looks however, I find more natural girls to be a lot hotter than the plastic looking, too much make-up wearing, ultra fake blonde haired females that seem to be 95% of the female population here. In fact, I kind of feel instant despise when I see women like that.

And while we're discussing boobs, I actually find small boobs very hot, so there, not all guys like huge boobs. Not that it matters though.

I have to say i feel abslutly the same way.

 

[Freakin_Amazin]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

I like boobies I like Legs

Naw, seriously, for me the only attribute she has to have is she has to like me. If she likes me AND lets me know, she's got the battle won and the war's over. And her boobies have nothing to do with it.

She's got to be willing to share her life (or at least a reasonable chunk of it) with me. She can't be embarassed to have me around. That's a dealbreaker.

HOWEVER for a long term relationship I do believe it IS important for her to want me sexually. How embarassing and degrading is it for a guy to have a partner who doesn't want him in bed? I'd feel pretty bad. And please if I'm doing anything wrong just tell me, because I will try to please you no matter if I have to bend over backwards to do it!!!

 

[Tramp]

I like girls that are intelligent and think straight - girls that are not too emotional and are pretty mature.

I also like to eat and have maintained the same weight for the past five years albeit eating a lot, and enjoy the company of women who like eating as well, because then I won't be the only one devouring everything at my favorite buffet place.

Needless to say, the definition of fun is beyond mere sexual satisfaction.

 

[Freakin_Amazin]

aww you all seem like awesome guys, shame i've never met guys like you.

That seems to be a common thread (pardon the pun) with most of us.

 

[JustLost]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

You think "most guys" are like this? No wonder it's so hard for me to find someone. Every woman assumes I'm some disgusting pervert on a mission to climb boob mountain...and it's obviously pointless for me to even attempt to prove otherwise because they'll just assume I'm a liar.

What's the point? I might as well become the terrible thing you all fear because no is willing to hear differently.

"Yeah!!!...drool...I like big boobies....DUUUUUHHHHH!!" Did I get it right? Is this what I'm supposed to do?

 

[ClosetGeek]

what would you say are the most important attributes that a girl must have to make her appealing? it seems to me most guys wont go near a girl unless she has massive boobs and is sex mad. please prove me wrong guys.

I can't speak for "most guys" and while i can't say if it is the most important attribute, because i just don't know, the big boob thing does seem to impress some. The bigger the better. Dragging on the floor, trip over them size.

While i may notice boobs they are way down the list of concerns for me. Probably about as important as her sock color to me.

The single most important attribute to me would be fidelity. Without that no matter how many other great appealing characteristics she may have, any relationship would be headed for destruction anyway.

Oh yeah even better yet, her boobs are so huge, that when she orders a cab for herself, she orders a second cab for her boobs.

Boobs are sexual material. If a man is only concentrating on huge boobs, then he is in it for the sex. Huge boobs=porn material. Same with big penises.

Some men are boobs men, some legs men and some are butt men.

A man who is looking for a long term relationship will check you out but he will not narrow things to your chest size or butt width. lol.

If a guy is shallow enough to ask your cup size, ask him next time, how long dong. lol.

 

[Incognita]

to please you bend over backwards to do it!!!

aawwwwww...how sweet and romantic!

why do some guys like tomboys?
I used to be one .. lol




if I were a dude...I would want an average looking girl but with pleasant facial features, shorter than me,straight hair,full figured, nice round boobs and nice butts lol. No make up or bleached hair.Family oriented, great cook (I am so starved right now OMG)clean and no mess in the house, quiet, compromising, blow jobing type ofcourse...lmao... oh I am baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadd... lol and one that is willing to have kids. Oh, and noooooot career oriented one. Those totally suck.

 

[bookbinder]

Oh, and noooooot career oriented one. Those totally suck.

Oh hell no- gotta put that ***** to work. Get that cash, you know?

 

[Incognita]

lmao

no...those women that are crazy about careers...they don't raise their children. It's their babysitter's job. They are never home.
And excuse me ,my friend,but what kind of a decent man will live off his b**** cash? Sorry for my language, but thats what u call them lol.

 

[ClosetGeek]

lmao

no...those women that are crazy about careers...they don't raise their children. It's their babysitter's job. They are never home.
And excuse me ,my friend,but what kind of a decent man will live off his b**** cash? Sorry for my language, but thats what u call them lol.

The word you are looking for is "scrub", men who live off their ******s cash that is.

 

[JustLost]

the majority of guys i've been out with or who have hit on me are like that yes unfortunately. However the fact that there are girls out there like myself and other on this forum, who dont want that sort of guy, means we decent girls are out there, you just need to keep looking to find us.

But it's kind of a "damned if I do, damned if I don't" scenario isn't it?

If I say I'm fond of certain female attributes then I'm a pervert. If I say those kinds of things don't concern me, then I'm not being completely truthful.

That being said, I'd just like to find a girl that understands me. She could have the flattest chest in the entire world for all I care.

 

[ClosetGeek]

But it's kind of a "damned if I do, damned if I don't" scenario isn't it?

If I say I'm fond of certain female attributes then I'm a pervert. If I say those kinds of things don't concern me, then I'm not being completely truthful.

That being said, I'd just like to find a girl that understands me. She could have the flattest chest in the entire world for all I care.

Well females experience the same thing:
If you are independent and have your act together: then you are classified as the emancipated/feminist arrogant *****
If you are dependent and rely on the guy: then you are clingy and you have no life
If you are dependent on the guy for financial reasons: then you are a golddigger
If you enjoy sex: then you are a nympho and have issues
If you don't enjoy sex: then you are frigid and have issues
If you talk honestly and openly about sex and men: then you are a slut
If you talk about your ex-boyfriends etc: then you have issues
If you don't talk about your ex-boyfriends etc: then you are classified as shady, manipulative, and most probably a female player