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I came here for the [USER=12295]@TropicalStarfish[/USER] outlook. Now I feel obligated to answer for myself.Absolutely, love is a feeling. The OP sounds like choosing a fear of change/not enough change/being changed. I've found it's impossible to be in any form of love without the changes to self. Probably not so much superficial changes, but a continuous growth on the inside. I think you can absolutely choose to view it as a cancer or as a height advantage.Romantically, I view love as more of a lesson. Feelings play a big role. But learning where to nurture, where to be disciplined, when to let go and compromise... Sometimes, my personal fears make it feel like pulling teeth, but it's all necessary.
I came here for the [USER=12295]@TropicalStarfish[/USER] outlook. Now I feel obligated to answer for myself.
Absolutely, love is a feeling. The OP sounds like choosing a fear of change/not enough change/being changed. I've found it's impossible to be in any form of love without the changes to self. Probably not so much superficial changes, but a continuous growth on the inside. I think you can absolutely choose to view it as a cancer or as a height advantage.
Romantically, I view love as more of a lesson. Feelings play a big role. But learning where to nurture, where to be disciplined, when to let go and compromise... Sometimes, my personal fears make it feel like pulling teeth, but it's all necessary.
