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I know exactly what you’re talking about. Your life has some remarkable similarities to mine so know you’re not alone. A hard part for me is that I’m the bread winner and have to work very hard every day. It’s a depressing and lonely feeling when you’re doing it for someone who doesn’t care. It would be so incredible to come home to someone who appreciated me and was willing to show it. I don’t think my wife could handle being appreciative. She’d find it humiliating or embarrassing. Biggest problem for me is we have 2 kids and both of us are devoted parents. I’ve worked it a million ways in my mind and come to the conclusion it’s better to suffer in silence. But jeez it would be wonderful to not feel so alone.