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Phaedron

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Ever find yourself in a friendship/relationship with someone who thinks you are someone else, a long lost person from their past, something like that?

Would you play it out, or simply tell them they have mistaken you for someone else right from the start?

In my case theres a twist. While I tend to consistently use or imply Phaedron in various places on the internet, there's a chance she really does know me. (Friendship that is. I wouldn't want to have a mistaken relationship.)

It seems I'm very good at being mistaken for someone else. Back in early 2011 I was mistaken for Tim Rifat by this newager I was talking to. I actually just linked her his site in the hopes that she would read about all the crazy things he claims to be doing to them, and the next thing you know shes talking about sending me (him) packages and bringing up elements from his personal life, like she was his long lost lover who had finally found him. That one didn't end very well. She threatened to take legal action because she ordered something from his site that didn't arrive and I responded with a series of emails trying to explain that I wasn't him, which ultimately ended with my threatening to use his powers and she took it seriously.

I am the mistaken one... Where others have an identity I have a mirror. I cannot be seen as I am, but others read into it what they will. Must be a side effect of that invisibility spell. JK. I used to have a book on Invisibility and Levitation, but I didn't actually do anything with it. I'm not sure why you'd want to be invisible when levitating or levitating while invisible. What do they have in common? Getting high and going out of sight? Hmm...

But I digress... I just work with what life gives me... since I didn't follow the path of bending all things according to my will. Strength made perfect in weakness and such. A paradox.
 
I dont really read into too much on-line personalities or profile ****.

As far as other people making me into whatever the **** they want in thier heads....
well, I just dont reLLY give a **** what people thinks about me.
Beats the hell out of me what's running in people's head. i hAVE better things to do
with my life... Im done with people trying to put me in thier fucken box.
And My lifes dosnt center around what gose into other people's head.

Beside...some people dont really want me to rant space in thier heads....
Im like a wreacking crew. :p

On top of that...I believe people are stuck too much in thier own ******** or life
to be givning me too much thoughts.

As far as my idenity with some family members or friends...
Well...it's kind of the samething.
I dont really know what they think of me from moment to moment.
I can only go off of what they tell me. And I choose to focus on love.

As far as who I am as a person....
Well, Ive gone through so much changes and evolved as a person.
As I evoled...I see things or life differently.
I know myself better than anyone else...The thing of it is, I change.

As far as....strength made perfect in weakness.
Thats..like saying aligning my will with god's will's for me.
"have faith...the father dose the works"
So my work is actaully to align me heart with god's
I see that diferently or understand that a little differently now or approch it differently now...

Kind of like going with the flow of life or flowing down stream with the river instead of struggling swiming up stream against
the current.....
So If i apply this principle of what other's think of me...
Well..I dont try so fucken hard anymore to please people or get people to like me.

I love me....I dont always act or behave as i think I should.
I made mistakes and will probably make more mistakes as I go.
Learn the lessons but not carry the guilt. I dont beat up on myself...

So...if i dont beat up on myself, criticize or condem myself.
When other people tries to beat up on me for whatever the **** they think...Well, They can kiss my fucken ass and jump off a fucken cliff.
 

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