My god people are F***ing nasty C***s.

[cumulus.james]

There is an app on your mobile for gay people to find other gay people. It has been of no use to me. I don't know why I have it I just like o look I guess (it shows distance and stuff so you can see whose around).

So for the few months I have had it I just look. That's all. Only a couple of days ago there was this guy who was pictured with James Hetfield from Metallica. In my 30 years I never met another gay metal fan. So I started taking to him, I asked him if it was James Hetfield like I thought, he replied enthusiastically, then i asked what it was like to meet him and that and he replied with a slight grudge. Then I asked him what other bands he was into and he blocked me!

If your not young and "fit" your not good enough o talk to, not even about Heavy Metal.

There is no place left to go I think. Not just for me. For you also.

Loneliness and isolation are terminal conditions. There is no cure and they are conditions that will result in our death (it is proven depressed people are more prone to illness, cancer and mortality).

This is not life that we live. It is as if someone has pressed the pause button. No going forward no going back. WE are stuck in this misery until the tape snaps and the machine catches fire.

Don't reply with messages about how I am wrong and you turned you life around and everything going great for you blah blah blah. That would be a proven lie by way of the fact your on this forum. If you life was even close to normal you would not have the time or inclination to come on here.

 

[Callie]

Um... All I'm gonna say is speak for your damn self, not everyone. Cuz what you say is ********, imo.

 

[Pheenix]

You could be close to normal with a few kinks to work out.

Any way, that guy was clearly not very smooth at avoiding conversation. I don't think he had anything against you personally. People are like that sometimes. Not much we can do about it.

 

[Ak5]

I personally would never use an app to let strangers know where I am. But anyhow, its the INTERNET, you personally don't know that person. That person is probably just someone who is lieing and blocked you just because he's scared.

Young or not, people of all ages have friends. You just have to try to get to know the right kind of people.

And yes Loneliness/Isolation are dangerous but it can be cured!

I would surely like to go back years ago and manage to change a lot of things and I would probably be having friends by now, and I would be hanging out with them instead of knowing a Forum like "A Lonely Life" exist. But I can't do that, what I can is make things better for the future.

I still haven't turned my life around but I do my best to do so! I already did some things to make my life better, but there are still work to do. I come to this Forum to get assistance and to offer assistance. I am currently in process of moving to another area (where I can make friends), while I'm waiting for that I am here coping. Even though, I am looking for programs or activites that I could do to keep myself occupied until I move.


I rarely use quotes, but here is a good one:

"A Journey of a Thousand Miles begins with a single Step." - Confucius



Instead of being depressed, change your outlook on life. That is the first step.


Good luck.

 

[cumulus.james]

Um... All I'm gonna say is speak for your damn self, not everyone. Cuz what you say is ********, imo.

^^^^ there is a case in point. That is what I encounter. Everywhere I go all my life. You know I don't think I have ever experienced kindness form a human. I've certainly never experienced any form of love.

Seems to me its a good job humans are driving themselves to extinction. Its only what people deserve.

Even on a forum called "lonely life" no one has a ******* heart!

 

[Callie]

Um... All I'm gonna say is speak for your damn self, not everyone. Cuz what you say is ********, imo.

^^^^ there is a case in point. That is what I encounter. Everywhere I go all my life. You know I don't think I have ever experienced kindness form a human. I've certainly never experienced any form of love.

Seems to me its a good job humans are driving themselves to extinction. Its only what people deserve.

Even on a forum called "lonely life" no one has a ******* heart!

Sorry, but when you speak for more than just yourself, yes, I'm gonna say something. You are entitled to your opinion, just like I'm entitled to mine. That doesn't mean I don't have a ******* heart.

 

[VanillaCreme]

There is a cure to loneliness. It all depends on if you do want to cure it. It does take a lot of effort though, to break out of that shell. So, it all depends.

And yes, please do speak for yourself. Because I assure you, you can't speak for me.

 

[Badjedidude]

Seems to me its a good job humans are driving themselves to extinction.

lol no we're not. We're actually poised to become an extra-solar civilization within the next couple centuries or so.

Maybe things would look better for you if you adopted a more positive attitude.

 

[beans]

Even on a forum called "lonely life" no one has a ******* heart!

I hear you. Think some people are just looking to jump on anyone who says anything that is not smart/not right to them.

Sorry to hear you're facing all this but you're not alone. Forums can be a good form of support but that's about it. It'll not improve your real situation. Try meeting people OFFLINE. Is there a way to do this?

But what the above poster said and some others say is true. It really does help being more positive. There is nothing good in being negative. Its stressful and painful. And its destructive. It takes a lot of time to change your thoughts. You can change your life by how you feel and that comes from avoiding thinking too long about toxic stuff.

 

[IgnoredOne]

You insult us and then wonder why we aren't being nice to you. May I ask if there is some logical disconnect here?

 

[SofiasMami]

If your not young and "fit" your not good enough o talk to, not even about Heavy Metal.

There is no place left to go I think. Not just for me. For you also.

Loneliness and isolation are terminal conditions. There is no cure and they are conditions that will result in our death (it is proven depressed people are more prone to illness, cancer and mortality).

This is not life that we live. It is as if someone has pressed the pause button. No going forward no going back. WE are stuck in this misery until the tape snaps and the machine catches fire.

Don't reply with messages about how I am wrong and you turned you life around and everything going great for you blah blah blah. That would be a proven lie by way of the fact your on this forum. If you life was even close to normal you would not have the time or inclination to come on here.

Relax, man. One guy blocked you. Big ******* deal. Maybe he thought you were coming on to him and he just wasn't interested. Why are you jumping from one guy blocked you to you're not good enough to talk to and we're all in misery? Maybe you will be miserable for the rest of your life, who knows. But don't tell me I don't have a good life just because I'm on this forum. I don't need to justify my presence here to you and you need to speak for only yourself, pal, don't speak for me too.

-Teresa

 

[nerdygirl]

*blink* Wow.

 

[Limlim]

I'm visiting my parents house for 2 weeks, and I've been eating tacos almost non stop. Let me tell you about them...

 

[VanillaCreme]

Lol Lim.

 

[SofiasMami]

I apologize for being harsh. I hope I didn't hurt anyone's feelings
I doubt the OP much cares what I think anyway

-Teresa

 

[Sci-Fi]

Didn't realize there were "fit" metal fans out there, not to sound stereotypical but anyone I knew who were into metal we not "fit" and shouldn't be saying or treating other people in a negative way. Most had long hair, not bad but not the best hygiene, get odd things pierced on their bodies, and were lazy bums who'd rather stay in their moms basement then socialize with the outside world. Maybe that's your problem, looking in the wrong type of groups or... well... this....

You insult us and then wonder why we aren't being nice to you. May I ask if there is some logical disconnect here?

You do this a lot, then make a thread like this. Pot meet Kettle.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Didn't realize there were "fit" metal fans out there, not to sound stereotypical but anyone I knew who were into metal we not "fit" and shouldn't be saying or treating other people in a negative way. Most had long hair, not bad but not the best hygiene, get odd things pierced on their bodies, and were lazy bums who'd rather stay in their moms basement then socialize with the outside world. Maybe that's your problem, looking in the wrong type of groups or... well... this....

Haha, last three metal fans I met had long, greasy hair and a bad case of BO. Stereotypes usually have some substance to 'em if you think about it.

I'd say James had his hopes up for a guy who might have been cool to talk to (there are no gay metal fans? Really? ) and being shot down like that hurt. The mind takes **** and blows it out to be bigger than what it really is, and it takes a conscious effort to bring it back down to scale.

I mean, honestly, did anyone REALLY expect this forum to be free of misguided, controversial, and nasty opinions? Depression is a bitch. It's nasty and disgusting and brings out the worst in everyone. We all end up experiencing this kind of **** at some point, and I can name a few that I've spoken to in this thread alone to back up my point. Don't worry, boys and girls. He'll get over it.

 

[Pheenix]

Ha, metal fans are either overweight hairy people or extremely muscular bald dudes.
Well I guess I am an exception, being a thin weakly man xD

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Actually these guys were thin and weakly as well Just...also stinky.

 

[Pheenix]

True. I'm gonna count myself out of that, but there are metalheads that are like that, and proud of it. They like the primal animalistic aspects.

Well, enough of me derailing the thread xD