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Honestly, I don't think marriage is gonna solve anything. Probably the opposite. The way I see it, it would be best to leave him be for some time. Maybe that way he can come to a favorable decision and things can work out in the end, but even he doesn't, that still beats being in a toxic relationship/going after someone who doesn't value you the same way as you value them (or who may be losing interest for whatever reason). I've been in this position of pursuing a relationship with someone who was unsure of what they wanted, and even if, in the heat of the moment, we want to put in a lot of effort for things to eventually work out, upon careful consideration you'll find that it is a lot better not to overdo things. Some things are, after all, the prerrogative of others, not of us.