My problems in life

[Grievon]

Greetings.im new here,yeah i came across this website on google.i was trying to find an answer for my life so maybe there's better answer than leaving it just like what my mind said.

Im a teenagers have couple of friends,my friends arent close enough to me and thats what i feel.i dont know if they have their own life or maybe im just thinking too much.mostly if i see people i dont know why seems like they are prefer not to talk to me at all,they only invites me to eat with them together..i have 1 friend who accepted me as his best friend,i tried to be kind to him as i could,but sometimes when i need his help i dont think he will help me first and consider about my problem deeply

About myself: i always look so emo,and i prefer to be alone..i dont know why every time theres a problem or request thats connected to me i tried to fulfill or fix it but in the end,seems like my effort become wasted..its so hard to find a person who can understand my feelings and stay by my side as a true friend..all i consider that only things around me are my family because they are always cheering me up when im down...

my question is: what should i do to fix my life so i can feel happiness?.i know im so lost..is it a good thing if i leave my friends behind and ignore them just because they cant understand me ( some innocent people might be affected by this) ?...im not sure about myself,im a loner yet im afraid if im being alone for my entire life as in social.

 

[Badjedidude]

Welcome to the site.

 

[Callie]

Welcome to the site.

To be happy, you have to do whatever it is that you enjoy. You can't be told how to be happy. You have to live your life for yourself. Don't worry about what other people say, just do what you do, and be who you are.

 

[xRedWing5]

Welcome to the forum!
Here's my solution that's worked for me!
Just be yourself around people, no matter how "cool" they are or anything like that! Let the community accept you for who you are! You just need to find your group of people. I'm probably one of the weirdest and most random people in the school, but do I care? NO! I have pleanty of friends and we all joke around a lot. Remember this: No matter who you are, there's always someone out there that's just like you!

 

[Grievon]

Thanks for the warm welcome.

So the point is just be myself and ignore what people say,i can understand that..

So anyway is it good enough to leave my friends who looks like to me that he just all acting care towards me,well he never consider my needs seriously despite that i did try to help him and my request arent much comparing to him..he even said himself that im considered as his best friend but after seeing things how it goes i dont think so anymore

 

[shawn5]

Hi dude ,....
nice article to read having great useful informative stuff,....i appreciate your effort,..thanks,..

 

[Laguna]

Welcome Grievon.

I think you shouldn't consider happiness as something you either have or not. You know, it's not a state, just an emotion. See you in the forums.