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what's the country with large amount of woman and few men. I think it is Cezh republic or Iceland, don't recall anymore. Go there and you will be swiming in pu***y. Main problem is there are 2-3 above avarage male on 1 above avarage female, who will then decide between them and leaving other ones angry and triggered
 
Dead_Man_Walking said:
what's the country with large amount of woman and few men. I think it is Cezh republic or Iceland, don't recall anymore. Go there and you will be swiming in pu***y. Main problem is there are 2-3 above avarage male on 1 above avarage female, who will then decide between them and leaving other ones angry and triggered

Of course that won't work.....I'm have no idea why, but I'm sure they have some ******** excuse. :p

Seriously, guys, you are just beyond ridiculous right now.  STOP telling women that they are lying when they tell you they have issues too.  I can't imagine why no one will date you when you are bitter, negative as **** and you tell people they don't have any problems at all because of their gender.  You have no damn idea, because you don't have a damn ******.
 
Dead_Man_Walking said:
what's the country with large amount of woman and few men. I think it is Cezh republic or Iceland, don't recall anymore. Go there and you will be swiming in pu***y. Main problem is there are 2-3 above avarage male on 1 above avarage female, who will then decide between them and leaving other ones angry and triggered

Hmmm...Iceland.
"Dast thou hast the time, Fraulein?"
"Ya, haha!"
*gets naked with three of her friends, cue 70's cheesy **** music"

Ah well. I got my dreams. ;-)
 
Xpendable said:
That's german. ^^

Lol I don't know how icelanders talk, so its the best I could do on short notice. Just insert Icelandish-ish talk lol.

The French from France ones I know;
*random girl in a shop*
" Bonjour mademoiselle, voulez vous un sucrerie?" *ZIP*
"Ah, merci, javais faim, hihi!"
*POUTISH-POUTISH-POUTISH-POUTISH*
 
I can just imagine ice landscapes and woods. Icelandic is one of the most difficult languages next to hungarian and finnish, but I imagine it's worth it whe you only have blonde, blue-eyed women in there.
 
TheRealCallie said:
Dead_Man_Walking said:
what's the country with large amount of woman and few men. I think it is Cezh republic or Iceland, don't recall anymore. Go there and you will be swiming in pu***y. Main problem is there are 2-3 above avarage male on 1 above avarage female, who will then decide between them and leaving other ones angry and triggered

Of course that won't work.....I'm have no idea why, but I'm sure they have some ******** excuse. :p

Seriously, guys, you are just beyond ridiculous right now.  STOP telling women that they are lying when they tell you they have issues too.  I can't imagine why no one will date you when you are bitter, negative as **** and you tell people they don't have any problems at all because of their gender.  You have no damn idea, because you don't have a damn ******.

I didn't say that. I don't think negativity and bitternes describes only one gender. You think only males have trouble with dating?
 
Dead_Man_Walking said:
TheRealCallie said:
Dead_Man_Walking said:
what's the country with large amount of woman and few men. I think it is Cezh republic or Iceland, don't recall anymore. Go there and you will be swiming in pu***y. Main problem is there are 2-3 above avarage male on 1 above avarage female, who will then decide between them and leaving other ones angry and triggered

Of course that won't work.....I'm have no idea why, but I'm sure they have some ******** excuse. :p

Seriously, guys, you are just beyond ridiculous right now.  STOP telling women that they are lying when they tell you they have issues too.  I can't imagine why no one will date you when you are bitter, negative as **** and you tell people they don't have any problems at all because of their gender.  You have no damn idea, because you don't have a damn ******.

I didn't say that. I don't think negativity and bitternes describes only one gender. You think only males have trouble with dating?

Oh, that second part wasn't directed at you.  Just those that are in here saying men have it so horribly and women have no problems at all, because they are women and get can dates regardless of whatever problems they have or whatever they look like.  There are a couple of men in here that think that and keep repeating it over and over again.  "just sit and wait and they will come to you" blah blah blah

Women can definitely be bitter and negative, I will never say they can't be.  Hell, I used to be. lol
 
kaetic said:
When you start up a dating profile they don't automatically populate a screen with pictures of profiles the website wants you to check out? That's what I'm talking about when I say "match" and I'm pretty sure it's not something they just do for the women. Although you guys have made me pretty curious about setting up a fake profile to see how men get treated on there, you know, for ***** and giggles.

Also, messages wouldn't have made a difference. I psyched myself out because of my own issues, a stranger saying hello wouldn't have mattered, especially because I didn't share a picture.

Go for it. Report back with your findings.
 
Judging from the reactions I've gotten from sharing so far I can imagine what I'll get if that little experiment doesn't match your expectations to the T. So probably for the best not to waste my time.
 
I might actually screencap a journal of my experiences to prove some claims.
 
kaetic said:
Judging from the reactions I've gotten from sharing so far I can imagine what I'll get if that little experiment doesn't match your expectations to the T. So probably for the best not to waste my time.

It's ok. We all know what would have happened anyways. The guys at least.
 
kamya said:
Easy to say when you're not the gender that has to actually do the work. Men have it much harder in online dating. I'd say that's why men complain more about it here. Why do you think it's called "getting lucky"?

Almost every woman here could fall into a relationship with an average guy within the week if they decided they want one. 

You'll never get it. 

They don't 'see' all these messages because they come from men who don't appeal to them. Their options are considered non-options.
 
kaetic said:
Judging from the reactions I've gotten from sharing so far I can imagine what I'll get if that little experiment doesn't match your expectations to the T. So probably for the best not to waste my time.

Yeah, really. Because of certain things that have happened to us that show something different could happen, we're magically the exception to everything ever. I don't get it. I probably never will. But I'm also learning to just leave miserable alone.
 
VanillaCreme said:
kaetic said:
Judging from the reactions I've gotten from sharing so far I can imagine what I'll get if that little experiment doesn't match your expectations to the T. So probably for the best not to waste my time.

Yeah, really. Because of certain things that have happened to us that show something different could happen, we're magically the exception to everything ever. I don't get it. I probably never will. But I'm also learning to just leave miserable alone.

None of you have presented anything to show that something different could happen though.

I'm afraid there are a lot of things you will never get.

Kaetic being too scared to actually message anyone doesn't really say anything about the state of online dating. All it says is that she could use Callie's advice more than any of the men complaining in this thread. It further highlights how trivial the problems that women have on dating sites are in comparison to men. If the advice of "just get over your fear of rejection and try" is all you really need then the problem really is just with you and not a problem with the state of online dating. I wish we all had it that easy. Then you wouldn't have to deal with a bunch of men complaining all the time.
 
kamya said:
None of you have presented anything to show that something different could happen though.

Were we supposed to be keeping notes? There are many things I won't understand in life, absolutely. Never get a denial out of me about it. Being bitter and negative about people just because I didn't get what I wanted out of them is one thing I don't even want to understand.
 
VanillaCreme said:
kamya said:
None of you have presented anything to show that something different could happen though.

Were we supposed to be keeping notes? There are many things I won't understand in life, absolutely. Never get a denial out of me about it. Being bitter and negative about people just because I didn't get what I wanted out of them is one thing I don't even want to understand.

He's not talking about specific people.  Going by your posts you've had at least 2 long term relationships.

You've gotten what you've wanted. The other person here hasn't because they're literally too scared to send one message.
 
kamya said:
VanillaCreme said:
kaetic said:
Judging from the reactions I've gotten from sharing so far I can imagine what I'll get if that little experiment doesn't match your expectations to the T. So probably for the best not to waste my time.

Yeah, really. Because of certain things that have happened to us that show something different could happen, we're magically the exception to everything ever. I don't get it. I probably never will. But I'm also learning to just leave miserable alone.

None of you have presented anything to show that something different could happen though.

I'm afraid there are a lot of things you will never get.

Kaetic being too scared to actually message anyone doesn't really say anything about the state of online dating. All it says is that she could use Callie's advice more than any of the men complaining in this thread. It further highlights how trivial the problems that women have on dating sites are in comparison to men. If the advice of "just get over your fear of rejection and try" is all you really need then the problem really is just with you and not a problem with the state of online dating. I wish we all had it that easy. Then you wouldn't have to deal with a bunch of men complaining all the time.

... And I see you changed your argument.
The reason I shared was to show that women have more issues than just having too high of standards (apparently not wanting to just **** whoever messages you first is too high, right?) and being too picky (pretty sure that's the same thing.)
Maybe if you bothered to think of women as actual human beings with thoughts/emotions similar to your own you might be able to connect more easily.
Don't worry about my meltdown. I was having a **** day. I will get over it. I also will not blame every man out there or the whole concept of online dating for my self esteem issues, or even for the rejections I've already gotten and will probably endure in the future. **** happens. We get to choose how we react.
 
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