pic of me

[putter65]

http://s1258.photobucket.com/albums...le Pictures/?action=view&current=meandann.jpg

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http://s1258.photobucket.com/albums...le Pictures/?action=view&current=meandann.jpg

when i was 10 !

on the left

http://s1258.photobucket.com/albums...99624644172_1048342337_32177826_8022407_o.jpg

 

[Lonesome Crow]

You aint that bad looking dude...

So i dont know what's up with why u think women wouldnt be attracted to you.

 

[putter65]

You aint that bad looking dude...

So i dont know what's up with why u think women wouldnt be attracted to you.

Thanks !

That is a good photo, probably the best of me in about 20 years. That's why I put it on here.

I don't know, maybe because I have never had a long term girlfriend, I started to wonder why. I know I was way too sensitive when I was younger. If I asked a girl to dance and she said 'no' - i would be depressed for awhile. I'm not like that now though !

I suppose 'looks' are the easy thing to blame. There must be some reason. Maybe my personality stinks ? I don't know.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Nah....you cant carry all of that on your shoulders...

Women are just Nucken Futz!!!!
Ive been with all types. From all walks of life...They're fucken nutz.

Their body chemistry messes most of them up or effects all of them
at one time or the other. Even the nicest sweetest ones you meet.
If you live with them...you'll know. Thier periods ***** up a lot of
them really bad. Then they get thirodes problems and all kind of
stuff becuase it messes up thier blood sugar level.

Then you gatta read up on the Valvetine Rabbit..to get real.lmao
It's bascailly about loving someone through thick and thin...becuase women are nutz.
Learn how to tolerate them when they go crazy and stuff. True love and all that good stuff.

Plus the dating game is wacked..
Like I said in other threads...it beomes like a freaken chore after a while.

here's a simple thing...
Catch them when they're in a good mood.
They'll associate you with thier good feelings.
When they get bitchie...stay the **** away from them...they'll associate you with thier bad feelings.

This way if you just pops into there presence..You'll trigger more good moods.
They say **** like..."i like that guy...he makes me feel good about meself"

The worst thing you can do for yourself...is to get cuaght in the freindzone trying to cheer a gal up
when she's feeling like crap...she's associating you with her bad feelings...
Thats why she'll go out with other dudes...when she's feeling better...becuase they cuaght her
when she was feeling good...makesense????

 

[putter65]

Nah....you cant carry all of that on your shoulders...

Women are just Nucken Futz!!!!
Ive been with all types. From all walks of life...They're fucken nutz.

Their body chemistry messes most of them up or effects all of them
at one time or the other. Even the nicest sweetest ones you meet.
If you live with them...you'll know. Thier periods ***** up a lot of
them really bad. Then they get thirodes problems and all kind of
stuff becuase it messes up thier blood sugar level.

Then you gatta read up on the Valvetine Rabbit..to get real.lmao
It's bascailly about loving someone through thick and thin...becuase women are nutz.
Learn how to tolerate them when they go crazy and stuff. True love and all that good stuff.

Plus the dating game is wacked..
Like I said in other threads...it beomes like a freaken chore after a while.

here's a simple thing...
Catch them when they're in a good mood.
They'll associate you with thier good feelings.
When they get bitchie...stay the **** away from them...they'll associate you with thier bad feelings.

This way if you just pops into there presence..You'll trigger more good moods.
They say **** like..."i like that guy...he makes me feel good about meself"

I happen to think I am a very nice person.

But when your by yourself all the time and women don't show interest for years then it's natural you start to doubt yourself.

You think allsorts of crazy stuff !

Anyway I will try out your ideas, thanks !

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Thats why they say " TIMING IS EVERYTHING"

but dudes with lack of knowlege of some of these simple facts....
Are trying to figure out how to hit up on chicks.
they cant figure out why chicks walk away from them sometimes.

It's dosnt matter if you're a nice guy...she's associating you with
her bad emotions....

If you had ever lived with a woman...you will totally understand...
When a women gets into her bad mood...there's nothing...adsolutely
nothing you can say or do to make her feel better.
She'll find another thing to bitch about...it's simply she's just feeling
bad becuase her body chemistry are going through the roof.

You can say exactly the samething to her when she's in a good mood
she'll respond to you different.

 

[Tiina63]

Hello Putter, I like both of your photos. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with the way you look.

 

[Ak5]

It isn't your personality, or your looks. It's your confidence. Something which can be overcome with training. I think that's your problem. Our confidence levels send off a vibe that everyone picks up on. That in turn, reflects of course how people think of us.

 

[dannyr22]

It isn't your personality, or your looks. It's your confidence. Something which can be overcome with training. I think that's your problem. Our confidence levels send off a vibe that everyone picks up on. That in turn, reflects of course how people think of us.

+1 - that's been my problem so far, confidence

you look cute as a lad OP. That reminds me, I should look through some old photos sometime

 

[Lonesome Crow]

As my spiritual advisor or life counselor puts it...
We are all capiable of being as nice as Jesus, As we are all
capiable of being as ruthless as Hitler.

People get hung up on traits and personalities.
The truth of the matter is ...we all change. We all have our
good days and bad days. We all get happy. We all get very
very angery and want to lash out.
Sometimes we're just tired or didnt eat.
Other times were on a sugar rush.

Personlities comes and go...just as our looks changes...
As such a good girl gone bad...ect
Or sometimes we might fall to illness or take medications...
all these factors will alter our personilties and behaviors.

Then you have freaken shirk telling us we have multy personality
DISORDERED...just becuase it gets label as a disordered...
we believed there's something wrong with us.

It's call SELF ACCEPTENCE.
Self esteem and confidence is but an awearness.

Pounder this for a moment???
what the heck is it do you really have to do to have good self esteem and confidence.
Its not going come from anywhere but from inside of you.
And where would that come from?????
It just CHANGING THE WAY YOU THINK AND BELIEVE....
altering your awearness or consiousness.

Like some people say...."Changes are hard or I cant change."
Will if you keep telling yourself that and believe that...Then WTF do you expect???
You're the person telling you those things.

If you tell yourself...it's easy and believe it's easy..what would you expect to happen??

Its self explainatory...man.

But if you're gonna change...it would be a self pleasing thing.
Chagning yourself to please others...that would people pleasing. Then you'll turn into a pretzel.

See..Just like some mother fucken ******* telling me i needed to grow the **** up and change to please his stupid ass.
Theres sick sons of ******* in this world

 

[Poguesy]

Poguesy bgoy just say

 

[putter65]

Hello Putter, I like both of your photos. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with the way you look.

thank you Tiina !

I do like the modern day one. It was taken on a works night out last year. There were a few more which I hated. I always seem to pull a daft face in photo's.

The one from years ago is nice !

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It isn't your personality, or your looks. It's your confidence. Something which can be overcome with training. I think that's your problem. Our confidence levels send off a vibe that everyone picks up on. That in turn, reflects of course how people think of us.

your probably right

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It isn't your personality, or your looks. It's your confidence. Something which can be overcome with training. I think that's your problem. Our confidence levels send off a vibe that everyone picks up on. That in turn, reflects of course how people think of us.

+1 - that's been my problem so far, confidence

you look cute as a lad OP. That reminds me, I should look through some old photos sometime

my mother used to tease me and say the girls will start knocking on my door when I got older. She was wrong !

 

[AFrozenSoul]

I have a good photo of me... I took it yesterday for records of what clothes I think look stylish together >.<

 

[sth]

Like others have already said. There is nothing wrong with your looks.

 

[putter65]

Like others have already said. There is nothing wrong with your looks.

nice of you to say, thanks

 

[The Good Citizen]

Here's a simple thing...
Catch them when they're in a good mood.
They'll associate you with thier good feelings.
When they get bitchie...stay the **** away from them...they'll associate you with thier bad feelings.
This way if you just pops into there presence..You'll trigger more good moods.
They say **** like..."i like that guy...he makes me feel good about meself"

Never heard of using the Pavlov effect to get female attention before!

Maybe you should ring a bell too and get her salivating when she hears you coming.

 

[Ak5]

Here's a simple thing...
Catch them when they're in a good mood.
They'll associate you with thier good feelings.
When they get bitchie...stay the **** away from them...they'll associate you with thier bad feelings.
This way if you just pops into there presence..You'll trigger more good moods.
They say **** like..."i like that guy...he makes me feel good about meself"

Never heard of using the Pavlov effect to get female attention before!

Maybe you should ring a bell too and get her salivating when she hears you coming.

Lol, good idea.

 

[Ca7nage79]

im new =D

 

[The Good Citizen]

Hi Ca7nage79!

Why don't you post a bit about yourself in the New Members Forum, reasons for joining and what you're hoping to gain from the site. You'll be guaranteed a nice welcome.